Yep! But being a lying cheating piece of crap doesn’t preclude a person from being beloved by others who don’t know said person is a lying cheating piece of crap.

I overwhelmingly see this attitude where people are like “well, his wife/girlfriend wasn’t having enough sex with him/giving him enough attention. WHAT DID SHE EXPECT?!”

I get what you’re saying, but I still feel like in the scenario we’re talking about, it becomes an issue of entitlement.

Even if that were the case and the wife rejected the husband, are we saying he’s just...entitled to sex? Or “connection”? If he’s unhappy with his connection to his wife, shouldn’t he at least have to discuss alternative options with her, including “outsourcing” sex or divorce?

Not to mention if a person is looking for “connection”, whether it be physical, emotional or intellectual, how gratifying could it actually be, knowing that you paid someone to basically pretend to be interested in you?

My office (government employee) has also had problems in the past with people pooping in not the toilets in both the women's and men's bathrooms. The restrooms are not accessible to the public so...definitely an employee smearing shit on the walls.

I was not married but in a LTR that lasted 7.5 years. He was cheating on me for at least the last several months of our relationship, and a friend of his told me he cheated on me a year ago in Vegas with a poker model and that he frequently talked to his friends about thinking he “just wasn’t a one woman kind of guy.”

My cheating ex-bf (7.5 years) was def into the power trip that comes from withholding information. He would get annoyed with me for asking “too many questions.” Not suspicious questions, mind you, but like “ what did you spill on the couch?” Or “what kind of sandwich did you order?” Or “where are we going?” if he told…

I just got out of a 7.5 year relationship with a guy who was an emotionally abusive manipulator who would freak out if he thought I was even TALKING too much to another male. He asked me to stop speaking to probably a dozen people saying they made him uncomfortable and we shouldn’t do things that made each other…

Yep. Get some porn, some lube, and a vag-in-a-can, dude. Interacting with actual humans is too advanced for you.