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Both men and women have rape fantasies. It’s a fantasy about surendering contol, not hating women.
Learn about it before you jerk that knee in the name of feminism.

The weird thing about this train-wreck of a thread (not the fault of the OP) is that James Deen hasn’t really been a BDSM/kink-oriented actor, for the most part. It does seem he has shot more of those scenes in his later career, perhaps for the cover it offers his predatory nature.

Things that are indefensible: rape.

LOL chickie-pie.

Just like women in porn, people who are into BDSM are generally more well-adjusted than average. Higher self esteem, better at relationship communication, etc. They tend to be more adventurous in their daily lives, more prone to thrill-seeking. They are also less likely to have been abused growing up, so “daddy

Please, keep saying this. Say it over and over again until people get it. Sigh.

Because consensual BDSM play has nothing to do with actual rape. Many sex-positive feminists engage in BDSM without it conflicting or cancelling out their feminist politics.

Lots of women have rape fantasies. Please remember that kink shaming is not okay, and neither acting in nor viewing videos simulating rape is an endorsement of actual rape.

You really think that set him off? He was hunting. He left his house with the intent to kill the first person that confronted him. His smoking was deliberate.

And the combination of all of these factors makes the US a terrifying place to live if you are not white, male, and armed.

Shit, I smoke and I don’t even smoke inside my own house or friend’s houses. I long ago got used to smoking outside, and the only time I ever smoke indoors is in the Atlanta airport smoking lounge.

it was a woman telling him NOT to do something he wanted to do. dude was just standing his ground!! he has a right to carry AND a right to smoke, so, bitch, just shut yer face.

There very well be mental illness at play here. But mental illness doesn’t equal violence. Plus, as Obama noted a few years ago, the US doesn’t have a monopoly on mental illness. We sadly aren’t even the only country with widespread white male privilege and national political figures who spew out hateful rhetoric that

You could build an entire house out of all that straw.

It’s incredible what makes people become unglued. Motherfucker, smoking inside buildings has been outlawed basically everywhere for YEARS. This is not new information. Yet this is what he decided was worth killing someone over? Some defenseless employee just doing her job, telling him something any idiot knows? The

“Practice your attitude” = “Women and black people should remember how to speak when talking to their betters.”

This country fucking scares me.

Jesus Fucking Christ, the dude they got a quote from in the story: