Boob job question: What do your boobs feel like to you now? I always wondered if the sensation would change. They are one of my erogenous zones, so it’s something that would hold me back from pursuing one.

Found out that someone I care about has an aggressive form of brain cancer. He has a young family and a happy life and it’s so unfair. I know it’s not over till it’s over, but I am hurting so much for him and his family. Why can’t the evil shitheads of the world get cancer instead?

My lesbian relationships were characterized by days-long sex, so transitioning to men was ... startling, once I had to calculate orgasmic refractory periods.

I would really like to see this, but it’s playing nowhere near me. Womp, womp.

I am so glad the nurses cleaned my baby. But seriously, this made my day.

I didn’t mention women’s careers in this discussion since most of Jezebel’s readership is already well aware that most married women are doing all the family/home stuff while working too. Google “the second shift”.  So, we’ve leaned in at work while the men, largely, have not leaned in at home.

I have been perusing like crazy! It’s just such an opportunity that I get to choose my own dress and the color is navy, that I’m thinking about investing in a nice navy dress that will last me for years. But I will seriously just rent something if I get too neurotic about this perfect dress search.

I really think you’re stuck on the idea that men do all the initial legwork. That just doesn’t hold true in my lived experience. I, for instance, literally networked among friends to meet my husband. He was at home gaming, feeling vaguely sad he hadn’t met anyone. Real life. I cannot think of many men who actually ask…

Welp, $1,800 is out of my price range. :) And I am glad you knew that. Thanks!

Someone please help me out: What’s that navy dress Markle’s wearing? ETA: I need a navy dress for a wedding, and that looks easy-breezy, yet beautiful.

I don’t think that’s a bad thing. My husband started with negative dollars, but his career has done better than mine and both our lives profited. That’s what happens when you fall in love. In this case, both parties are being up front about what they can offer. When I was young and painfully broke, less broke dudes I…

Ask a generous and trusted female friend to let you read some of her dating app messages and you will quickly see that most men do virtually no emotional labor. That’s why women are talking about this.

Ugggggggh. I don’t want to roll over my IRA. Vanguard better figure this out.

I am so sorry for your loss.

I wish being weak wasn’t an insult. I wish men were allowed to express their need for any help they may require without having the word weak throwback at them like a pejorative. I am so sorry that happened to you, and that our culture made the fallout worse.

Edited: I was being needlessly bitchy. Sorry. I am a little under the weather.

I’m glad you told her you supported her. I’m sorry your friend behaved so terribly. That has to hurt you too, since you care about them both and have known them so long.

Me too. I am *this* close.

Or do the worst people seek out fame and power?

I briefly worked for an engineering company as an admin and quickly found that it was not a good cultural fit for me — a lot of blithely privileged men, benevolent paternalism, etc. — but the female engineers were spectacular. On deadline, under budget, great scaffolding for junior engineers, high levels of regular…