I don't read that to mean "in front of" like in the same room as, but rather, in the same apartment/house as your SO (or when they're aware that you're doing it). And that has to happen eventually. My fella made an announcement the first time he dropped a deuce at my place, and it went something like, "Well I've…

I lived in a one-bathroom house with my boyfriend. I was in the shower and I heard a noise - I look out and he's sitting on the toilet. "ARE YOU POOPING?" I shrieked, and then fled, covered in soap, because OMFG are you kidding me with your poop molecules? That was the beginning of the end. Actually, it was more like…

You're welcome. I find it's about as useful as an unrealistic, privileged suggestion like yours.

To be fair, this is almost 100% something Louise would say anyways. Wait, she'd also be monetizing it like a robber baron.

"It's just... how do I get paid to say stupid shit?"

Feminism makes me unhappy. Feminism makes me unhappy because women shouldn't have to fight to be considered equal. Feminism makes me unhappy because women (and men) shouldn't have ever had to live in a world where being of one sex made you weaker/subhuman. Feminism makes me unhappy because it shouldn't exist.

But why be so defensive and angry about it? Whenever someone reacts so emotionally, I'm forced to think there's more going on here than what they're saying. Or else why would they have such rage for a mundane issue? His anger is so disproportionate because he's scared of...something.

Because self-confidence and self-respect can only be shown through appearance. Right.

BTW, when was the last time you heard someone make this sort of remark about a man?

I think arguments like that are kind of pointless, though? I'm not Lena Dunham's best friend, so I could easily argue that she feels comfortable dressing in baggy clothes and that's how she feels most confident, just like lots of women prefer pants over skirts or sweats over tailored clothes.

Car =/= styling in this situation. Lena is very successful already, and part of that success is because she's not the hottest woman wearing the most well-tailored clothes in the room. To me, it's not fair to assume that just because a woman isn't wearing "nice" outfits, that means she's not comfortable with herself.…

Because not everyone derives comfort and confidence from the same things you do?

You are so not invited to our play dates then.

You were never friends in real life and he hasn't taken the hint so just block him on social media. You have no obligation to him at all.

Here's the thing - if they went with a gay friend to a gay bar and two leather daddies tried to force them into the bathroom and onto their knees how would they feel if a woman told them they should just expect it for being in a gay bar?

Sometimes I feel like I'm alone in my mutual obsession with both Jezebel and Katy Perry. Love her. Not ashamed.

Finnick. I choose Finnick.

I think I need to start thinking about others this way IRL. "Excuse me, no, you're not the boy in this life."

Women actually get this completely. Aroused vaginas also discourage urinary flow sometimes (often post-orgasm). But of course I imagine it's more difficult for men because of the physiological setup of one hole for two bodily functions.

Hmm....that won't work for me as pinching my nipples makes me hard.

Meanwhile, Snooki can kind of dance.