The relief. Thank you. My grandfather died last week and all I feel is relief. He was in his 90s and after an active life he was increasingly home bound and miserable, and starting to show signs of dementia. I loved him and I miss him, but I am so glad he isn’t suffering anymore.

Lol, probably not if you also care about this issue. My three siblings are decidedly apathetic about this stuff. You are likely not the obese older brother who is a good cook but lives on restaurant food (he wouldn’t be on Jez), or the sister who has not interest in food or interesting flavors, or the brother who…

My mother insists fresher spices are bullshit and there is nothing wrong with her cabinet full of 5 year old powders. Now I understand why all the food she cooks is so fucking bland. Any time I suggest she should replace something (or that I am going to buy fresh for myself), she says it’s a waste of money. I’ve taken…

Aquaphor or Dr Dans.

Dr Dans lip balm, which you can order online. Or aquaphor ointment, which was a lifesaver for me when I was on Accutane. Avoid menthol or peppermint oils, which are very drying and irritating for most people.