Oof. That is rough. My partner did that when he was going through a bad depressive episode, and honestly I think it made it worse! I don't think there is a set time that is healthy or unhealthy but if it is infringing on household duties, and general feelings of well-being (both personal, and for the relationship)…

Uuug, I so know how this feels! And the smaller the place, the harder it gets.
My problem is more that mine "just wants to veg" when he gets home. I usually get home earlier so I cook dinner. Then we eat, and he's supposed to do dishes. "Can I just do them tomorrow morning?"
Then there's two days of dishes…

My boyfriend went away for two weeks and I dropped five pounds, at least, and I got shit done. I reupholstered a chair, and organized my cupboards while also seeing people, and writing letters!
He comes back in a few days and while I am happy to see him again, I'm gonna miss my motivation. *sigh*

If you google examples of women at that height, and that weight you'll see she is actually smack dab in ideal weight for her frame, man.
Either you have some numbers wrong, or you don't know what plus sized means.

What is this shit?!
(I am at work and I can't turn on the volume so I am just sitting here in impotent rage, and confusion.)

If you want to! It's ultimately your choice. But on something like this there will be a lot of them, and you'll be called a "white knight" and a lot of worse things that will derail from your nice point.

Reminder: You have the power to dismiss trolls! :)

This is beautiful Madeleine. Thank you for writing this.
And this:

Yeah, it seriously boggles my mind. Others have suggested good things! Like janitorial duty, or even community service.
We had two 24/7 fully badged RCMP officers at my school (Canada, yay) and they were too busy with drug related locker raids and legit violence to worry about something like a food fight.

Dude, where were these police when people were getting curb-stomped over discmans at my high school? Or when my friend had a knife pulled on him outside the smoking corner for "sounding like a girl"?
But of course. Food fights. Big crime.

I think we're taste bud twins, because I definitely agree with that!

I LOVE TWIN PEAKS SO MUCH.
A good pie and damn fine coffee make for a damn fine day. Why have we not adapted pies into more breakfast foods? (Toaster strudels and turnover aside.)

Your friend is a genius.

There is no Switzerland in the war between cake and pie :P

That's three votes for Team Pie!

If we start the war, Burt will come!

I prefer pie.

It totally is.
I have fond memories of watching my dumb-shit classmates crush and snort them on a grade 7 camping trip.

This is fantastic, haha.

That's good too! As long as you're on board with it melting all over your fingers. Which if you are making s'mores, you should be.