Hetero privilege!!!

Who is more horrible, you for writing it or me for laughing?

Hm. Or maybe you’re just a size queen, and evidently can’t seem to accept that a) not everyone that has sex with penises needs one that’s huge and b) shaming men for penis size is the same kind of body snark that this very website is a huge champion against. There’s nothing wrong with having preferences for sex,…

Not be a jerk and just move on.

Yup, everyone who isn't perfect needs to just give up. Everyone is too shallow to see beyond anyone who isn't the Internet ideal.

He should just kill himself, right? I mean being born that way is something to be ashamed of.

Use some toys or something? Get creative. I don’t know, but I think if you truly love someone, how their body looks shouldn’t be a relationship ender.

My anecdata - I can think of four guys (including a roommate) who were widely known to be small. At least one was a legit micro. Not one of them had trouble getting women, whether a one-time thing or a LTR. Only one had $ to attract women with. There's a market for the small dudes.

I dunno, women fix their tits all the time.

That’s the part we don’t know, though. I mean good for him for getting the surgery, I’m happy he’s happy, but let’s not pretend that we’re talking about an actual medical condition (micropenis) and not a psychological or self-esteem issue.

I’m not saying it’s ideal, but it also wasn’t his fault. People have physical flaws, and no good comes of treating them like a defect of character or a willful failing. If she couldn’t live with his size, or lack thereof, that’s understandable enough, but being derided over it is rotten. She might not have said it to…

Small penises have their uses. They are good for anal sex ;)

Hey, not necessarily! The physical reality is an unfortunate truth, but it’s not true that all women would think of him as “less of a man.”

No I think he meant sexuality. A heterosexual man is a “giver” in the sense that he offers his penis to a mate. If that penis is deemed to be so inadequate as to be undesirable, it is not uncommon for a man to fear that he isn’t equipped to be a heterosexual man at all. If you’re sexuality involves being a ‘giver’ (in…

As absurd as it might sound, it’s not the first time I’ve encountered a guy who thought that. In those cases, and maybe this one, he felt his penis was too small for him to ever have a normal sex life with a woman, so no woman could really love him, but if he were gay he could at least be a bottom and be desirable…

I THINK, at least based on the rest of the quote, it made him question his likelihood of being a “normal” sexual being. Like if his fiancé leaves him due to this and there isn’t anything he can do to change it so maybe other ladies won't be into it either, his life (the sexual part at least) is going to be different…

OMFG. That sounds painful and not at all worth it. But if he's happy then meh. I kinda want to see the before and after.

Not sure what the side effects/drawbacks of that are. But good for him. I hope this helps him.

“It’s supposed to look like it was drawn by a child, but it was really just drawn in Paint by somebody who accidentally opened it that one time.”

I don’t see how “cast a wide net” and “write a semi-personalized message” are mutually exclusive. Writing in some personalization takes what, 2 minutes instead of 30 seconds for “hey”? You could still message 50 people in a day and not break a sweat.