Wait. this isn’t one of those “we let the kindergartners draw it!”

I prefer a straight fight!

“shaming men for penis size is the same kind of body snark that this very website is a huge champion against”

83% of dudes are under 6' in the US, doesn’t mean guys who are 5'5" are gonna do well at all. Dudes are simply less valuable in the sexual/dating marketplace than women. You see this in OK cupid response rates. If a decent looking woman on OKCupid says she’s looking for causal sex, she’ll get literally thousands of…

Bigger dicks are widely viewed desirable. It’s a fact. I’m not saying people should “give up,” but pretending guys with small dicks aren’t at a disadvantage is silly. I guess I just have a low tolerance for the whole “we’re all beautiful” new-age fee-good stuff; it’s like telling kids they can be astronauts.

While large breasts are certainly highly valued, there isn’t as much stigma attached to small breasts with regards to actually having sex. There are plenty of small-chested women who are celebrated as attractive. Can’t recall ever coming across anyone lusting after small cocks in a non-joke setting. Small breasts also…

I’m willing to bet that there are vastly more dudes with small dicks than the surely infinitesimal number of women who fetishize them. I’d also bet that a good number of those rare women are into them from a femdom angle. I guess you take what you can get...

You seem like a nice person.

I find it hard to believe, but I guess with other mitigating factors (being otherwise conventionally attractive, charming, ect.) a guy could be pretty successful, perhaps with saintlike nonjudgmental women who get little/nothing from penetration. However, I bet the market for “big” dudes is better.

You mistake my callousness for condoning the way we value people. I don’t “like” that people are often reduced to things outside of their control/objects, but that’s The Way It Is™. You can hold your breath waiting for a world where everyone’s equally valued, but I wont.

3" is not normal though, it’s extremely small.

It’s a cold world out there. Stay frosty!

I mean, if we’re being honest 5" isn’t much to work with either. Maybe if he’s really girthy, or has a TON of other redeeming qualities.

I don’t see anything wrong with her outright saying it. If he knows why at lease he can attempt to compensate in other ways (money,status, etc.)

Pretty much anything 6" and under gets lumped into the “small” category. while this dude probably didn’t have a actual micropeen, he’s at a huge (sorry) disadvantage, not just physiologically, but sexually.

I’ll qualify that with “likely.” Gender roles die hard when it comes to hetero sex. Of course not all women need dick, and some cis-het women are in fulfilling relationships with trans men, but let’s be real, the general consensus is that little dicks are useless, or at least very undesirable. Being useless is pretty…

Harsh, but what is she supposed to do with 3"?

Even if he found a woman that got “nothing” out of penetration, they’d still think of him as less of a man. Thems the breaks.

He’d be barking up the wrong tree there. Gay men are some of the biggest size queens out there (maybe the origin of the term too?). Literally no one like small dicks.

People will go to extreme “lengths”to fix or hide their imperfections...