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Says someone who hasn’t been married for 25 years to a spouse that they deeply love with a gaggle of kids. You can’t take your life experience and think it somehow is a blanket truth about humanity and relationships for everyone, everywhere.

Because absolutes are always the best advice, right?

You forgot #6 Be prepared to go to court and repay her for her belongings. (It turns out being mad does not give you a right to destroy the property of the person you are mad at.)

Yeah, blame monogamy. God forbid anyone accept personal accountability. You make a choice as to what type of relationship you want to be in, and its on you to negotiate those terms and try to not be a selfish asshole. Sorry that fucking with impunity has the possibility to hurt your partner’s feelings.

I think that is because so many people (I mean a lot of people) are very irresponsible when it comes to sex. Between diseases and illicit children, not to mention odd internet hookups that end up introducing a possible psychopath into one’s life, even just *one* relationship comes with a lot of risks (especially

I’m assuming their target audience isn’t “dumb people” lol

The show isn’t normalizing affairs. The show is highlighting that affairs are already normal. It’s not OK on the show, it shows how messy it is.

Surely though it is not up to society to accept that cheating is ok given your parameters? It is up to the person who has been cheated on and screw what society thinks.

This will probably get lost in the sea here, but everyone should know about this man - Chris Mintz. He was injured while trying to block the shooter from entering one of the rooms. He ended up with multiple gunshot wounds and two broken legs. How much better would it be if everyone remembered his name instead of the

Yep. These women are validated only because a man stood up. Presumably Buress being a comedian knew more of the inside scoop. I remember a long time ago the same with Beverly Johnson. To me, Beverly and Janice Dickenson seemed credible.. Because who in Hollywood would come up with something so terrible and so random

Proof that I married into a non-organized crime family: one of our wedding gifts was a picture crafted out of various-colored corn kernels, courtesy of Uncle Howdy and Aunt Eleanore from Dubuque.

Screams into pillow. When. Will. This. Stop.

How many other people in this industry got away with this? I didn’t realize how common roofies, etc. were until it happened to me, and then I found out a lot of women in my hometown had also been drugged. I imagine most wouldn’t have this high of a count (and Cosby’s count is likely way higher, accounting for the many

Which is a really sad statement in and of itself

That’s a can-of-worms question, plus I think it’s not the question that should be asked. I think we should instead ask about the entire system that enabled Cosby’s abuse.

At this point, it might be more expedient to start list people in the U.S. not molested or raped by Dr. Huxtable. I’ll go first: Never met him, never been drugged by him, never woke to him licking my feet, never woke up to find him jerking off on my ass. There. 300,000,000 million americans - 1 (me) = 299,999,999

he had me dress to look like Lisa Bonet

DIE

This is the type of situation I am talking about when I refuse to give road head. I do not want to die with a dick in my mouth.