The erasure of mothers, and in particular poorer mothers, is such an issue. It’s one of the ways the feminist movement makes it abundantly clear that the needs of upper-class white women are paramount, while everyone else needs to take a backseat.

The most frustrating thing when I was single was trying to date as a Black atheist. It is hard, though not impossible, to find agnostic or atheist or even non-deity-believing Buddhists among my targeted group of men, Black and Hispanic men born sometime in the 70s. The worst was the guy who put that his religion was…

I am an urban liberal atheist and I totally believe that there are circles where being Christian must feel very uncomfortable (although I think the comparison with coming out as gay is taking it too far). And as an urban liberal atheist, what position am I in to tell a Christian she’s wrong? I don’t know what that’s…

OMG yes. Just because your mother couldn’t make anything but scrambled, don’t assume that the rest of the world is insane or playing an elaborate trick on you when you find out that there are other ways to prepare them.

The water, oh god the water. I had a -server- pull that on me one day.

He really was being a bit of an elitist fuck, and I say that as a self-defined snob on several issues.

One can infer that if that’s the first listed definition by number, that there are other definitions for pizza listed and numbered as well.

Am guessing your guess is a good bet.

Nope. I love a man bun. Men with long hair just do it for me and if they want to put it in a bun, I’ll be into that too. Awooooga.

I don’t get the man bun hate. I mean I’ve seen plenty of women with ugly haircuts. If you ever wore those ugly half haired bumps that were popular a few years back you can’t complain.

I once caught a customer getting a beej when I was waitressing decades ago. The section had been shut down since it was pretty late and slow, and there was a wall separating it from the rest of the bar. He was sitting on a chair, elastic-waist shorts pulled down, she kneeling in the floor in front of him. I peeped my…

It felt magical. I sat for a while after my husband took a picture and then I left because I felt like it was his space and not mine. Dude just one eyed me when I got up and dropped right back to sleep. Here’s my pale legs and a sea turtle!

Not restaurant related.... at least not to me. During a tour in Iraq a good friend of mine had a sever crush on one of the cooks for the unit. They started talking and having little get togethers to make out in secret, because that shit is a literal criminal offense in a combat zone. So one day he tells me hes gotten…

I’m Australian. I know people who would do exactly that. My late husband among them.

When I was 18 (1990/91) my first job was at a McDonald’s. I worked the grill and during the summer and Saturdays during school (college), I closed the restaurant. My third or fourth time closing, the female assistant manager that closed said I worked too quick for us to have any fun. Being 18 I had no idea what she…

Gotta call foul on the joint that fired the gal for sneaky sex on the job.

Also, if SVU has taught us anything, no one can take your eggs/sperm after death to make babies without your permission.

That’s sweet because he had already bought the ring. In this case, the guy went out and bought one after she died. And then posted a picture of it on her hand. Her dead hand. There’s something off about that.

He definitly wasn’t, he’s just sexist - there are plenty of gay guys who seem overly freaked out by women, just as there are gold-star lesbians who loudly inform people that men are disgusting. I have no explanation for these people, but my partner is largely one of them.