I hear you. But...do a little research on the modern use of the word queer. It has evolved passed the level of reclaiming a slur and into a sexual identity that generally means “non-heteronormative” (though that definitely varies from person to person). Also, are you really suggesting that non-hetero women have never…

I’m also a queer woman, and the first person to police the language of someone not in the community, so I appreciate your logic. Obviously there is a huge different between what Banks did and playfully throwing that word around in a safe space.

Actually, f*gg*t IS a slur against many bisexual men, and I would argue sometimes women. Bigots don’t care where you are on the sexuality spectrum in order to discriminate against your queerness.