Hey Allyisabadword,

No prob! Wish I could give you some more definitive numbers!

Hi Chazmox,

Got it. And now another very specific question... are you uninterested because he's not making an enticing offer, or are you uninterested because your sex drive is on the lower side? I see a TON of women who complain about low sex drives, and we start digging a little deeper and realize that they're having pretty…

Hi Throwaway PE

Thanks to everyone for all of your amazing questions! I am typing as fast as I can over here! Fortunately Andy said it's OK for me to keep going, so I am going to hang around for a while longer and make sure I get all of your questions answered.

Hi there!

Hi Firsttime12,

Hey Greater,

Hi JeePeeBee,

Hi Aem2,

Hi XTygress,

Hi Between-meetings,

Another favorite is a vibrating cock ring. You can get pretty inexpensive ones. It gives some nice pressure for you, and a little extra action for her. Great bang for your buck on that one!

Hey Mizhapp,

Hi Throwawaype,

Hey BPA!

Hi Throaway! One of my favorite suggestions for newbies is a simple wand vibrator, because there are so many different ways to play with it. You can use it all over each of your bodies, and of course can focus on using it inside of her and on her clit. Also, LUBE! I seriously think lube is the most underrated sex toy.…

You think she finds it frightening or you know she does? Do you have any "light" BDSM porn that you can start introducing her to? Saying something simple like, "There's something about power dynamics in sex that is so arousing to me. Can I show you a video I found? I would love to share it with you."

Hey JeePeeBee, thanks for the question! How big is the discrepancy between how often you're having sex and how often you'd like to be? Have you and your girlfriend ever talked about frequency before?