This whole article screams projection:

No, it's definitely not. He'd be playing this wildly wrong. Chris is the one who played this the right way to become the next Bachelor — seem genuine, invested, and hurt to be dumped, but then almost immediately gracious and, soon after, ready to move on. The people who get messy like this don't get picked to become…

Sometimes I fucking hate the over-the-top feminism on display at Jezebel. I can't understand the idea of "slut-shaming" in regards to this story. I do not watch the show but can appreciate the detailed recap of this relationship. Why, because this man is hurting and therefore speaking out of that hurt and anger,…

That's why I call it "sheathing the skin sword."

He was on national TV, was he supposed to say fucking?

NEXT WEEK. We're having a taco party in celebration.

All for not slut-shaming, but can we go a little easier on Nick? I feel bad for him. He really loved her and thought he was sealing the deal. It is completely valid for him to feel hurt by her taking things as far as she did. I think she knew for a while that she was picking Josh. Sleeping with Nick wasn't fair to him…

I haven't seen this, but I love that the last two seasons people have stopped being nice and started being RILL. I used to think the reunions were such a joke, with all the spurned lovers sitting with their lips pursed and saying fake platitudes to prove how not-hurt they were. This messy shit is MUCH more…

I don't think he was trying to slut shame her. I think he was asking why she would do that, knowing how he felt about her, because it would give him hope, or he felt lead on by that. He was clearly vulnerable to her and cared about her a lot. If the roles were reversed I know I wouldn't want to feel like a notch on…

Maybe it's near South Dakota Fanning?

First kiss with a new guy! It was amazing. Most romantic thing that ever happened to me in a Cracker Barrel parking lot.

I just want to share that this super hot 22 year old (I'm 29) I've been dating who lives in Atlanta is on a plane to come see me in Oakland at this very moment. Last time he came to visit it was for 12 hours 6 of which we were having mind blowing sex. I am going to recklessly bone this young man until the sun comes up…

MY HUSBAND GOT A JOB!!! Since March 1 we've been living with my parents to save money to buy a house. On March 15 he lost his job. Got another job April 1st! They decided they wanted to actually hire someone else and fired him two weeks later...super cool. But last week he started a job that we're both very excited…

I need some positive inspiration that dating is actually a useful task. I find myself consumed way more than I'd like with the what-ifs and thoughts of people I'm dating. My brain power could be better used a million places. How do I have fun with it? Should I just quit???? 28 seems like a good time to just throw in…

after spending the last year kicking anti-depressants (I realize it's different for everyone) I've just come back from a gorgeous vacation with my husband and teenager and I'm rested, happy, and best of all, I can remember it all!

Just wanted to share my nanny's etsy website. She makes soft baby clothes. She's also a really sweet person and hasn't had that many sales yet. If anyone is interested, please check her out. www.simplybabybyletty.etsy.com

Even though the weekend is over and i'm not looking forward to the work week. I'm glad its over because this upcoming saturday my friend will be hosting a dinner party and there's this super attractive guy that i can't wait to chat up again. It has been a while since i've been excited or attracted to any dude. Cross…

I'm not sure I need any good news beyond being able to drive again and my daughter not pooping her pants anymore, but I posted those things yesterday.

After being unemployed for 7 months and moving to a different state in the middle of that, I've finally found a job! I don't start for another two weeks, but I just finished all the hiring paperwork. Feels good, man. Feels good.

$500 away from having enough to buy the big ass mansion in Calabasas. I've been playing since Tracie's article - and spent zero dollars!