You can keep trying to explain polyamory to me and tell me that I am not versed in it, or you can take my point that it definitely has some kinks in the system as it relates to heterosexual men and heterosexual women.

I do find it fascinating when people try to work to bring others on an equal basis into their relationship, and more power to them especially when it works out and nobody feels used or heartbroken. I’m sorry that you had that experience.

I’m confused. Are you medicalizing his predatory behaviour? Because he is not making that claim. I’m addressing his claim to be a sex “addict”. It’s not just him, it’s a toxic culture of masculinity that makes this behaviour OK. To medicalize someone who eroticizes rape and nonconsensual sex is just a more…

I don’t disagree with the philosophy, especially for people who really embrace an egalitarian ethos about it, particularly queer folx. I do raise my eyebrows at it being a label that some people use to describe what used to be called “swinging” - if you’re still benefiting from a traditional relationship, and if…

That’s the theory, yes.

I hate the term “skank” unless used ironically, but I do agree that polyamory just seems to be men’s excuse for behaving exactly as they always have but somehow with a “woke” label.

“My crime was my rock bottom” “I am an addict”

Huh. The more you know...

I feel very pleb right now, but what vents are you referring to? I thought vents were for walls.

In that case, I am also an actor. Where is my IMDB page?

It looks and sounds lovely with the accent. My impression is that she does not generally spell it with the accent, so it ends up looking like a weird Anglicized word with an expected English pronunciation.

I can’t believe she VOLUNTARILY took on that monstrosity of a name. She has an IMDB? what does she do, teach yoga to real actors? Hillary Hayward-Thomas is WASPY AF but it has a nice symmetry to it at least. Her fake name sounds like a Gilbert and Sullivan character. What a strange affectation. I don’t understand why…

I am not disappointed! this is kind of amazing. I’m guessing you meant “she” for “he” here?

What now about Hilaria and Jeff Goldblum?

Yes!

She should definitely issue a statement. I think we’ll be getting into interesting territory as to holding her complicit for the actions of her costar - Spacey is just one of many such open secrets, including powerful directors that hundreds of high and low profile actors and professionals are implicated with. I’m not…

That would be amazing and I would also laugh if they opened it like that.

That was a ridiculous conclusion. Up to that point, the moral ambiguity of her character was what made her so intriguing and that put her into Frank’s cartoon villain-like territory.

Claire always kept me going through the lower points of the show.

One can hope!