no, seriously: why can’t he be told to move if he doesn’t like his seat?

What is missing from these discussions is the obvious: If a man does not want to sit next to his assigned seat-mate, it is HIS problem and he much look to move. Because the seat-mate is female, we unquestioningly assume she is the one who much be inconvenienced. It’s ridiculous and glaringly obvious: he needs to…