If I were you, I'd make contact early. Non-romantic contact - get your foot in the door. Make sure they know you're around for hanging out purposes. If they're interested, you'll know.

Can't stand her music and I think she is totally overhyped.

Cool, let's ban migraines and panic attacks! :)

Well, if you wanna *really* be female, prepare to be judged mercilessly!

So...... you're not one of those people who thinks kids should never be seen or heard, then?

So, say there is a woman who is unstable enough to use abortion as her primary birth control.

Just curious: did your friend give you any indication that she 'expected' you too coo over the baby? Did you ignore the baby and she bitch-slapped you?

Right? Have some people never heard of babies before? Dude, they cry.

My partner and I are super childfree. And when we notice a crying baby, we usually just smile and joke with each other. I might give the mum an "It's cool, I understand" look.