What the hell? I'm glad you dropped your friend. Also, one thing that I have learned in growing up is that a lot of men are attracted to confident women.

I still remember when Dr. Tiller was murdered. What an amazing man.

Maybe I'm just lucky, but all the men I have dated seriously never even thought I was going to change my name. Okay, okay, n=4. They all seemed like they could give 2 shits about it. But still, I kinda thought this was a older generation thing (I'm 27).

Ding Ding Ding! Exactly my thoughts. If she didn't care, by all means take his name. But the insisting is really bothersome to me.

Well, then it really wasn't his name, it was his father's name.

This. Exactly.

I know it's the morning after, but I have to say it. TEAM JAKE!!!!

I love that dismiss button.

Go your dad!

I'm going to say that "yes" means "yes" because women are adults with agency.

I actually prefer thongs, but I always wear pretty thick ones. The skinny ones do not cover your crotch, and I hate those.

Wow, Ms. Yoffe, thank you for your amazing, unique, and totally revolutionary advice about rape. Never heard any of this before.

Ugh. Yes, thank you. While it is much more common than it should be, it isn't normal behavior, it CRIMINAL.

mind blown.

I know they are the source of my fabulousness, so I'm going to amend my comment and say strength.

Yup. About a year ago I was thinking about all the times as a teenager I made out with guy alone on his couch or car and he could have taken advantage of me after I said stop. But they didn't, because they weren't rapists.

Thank you kind lady.

Those are some good-lookin' cuff links you got there. :) Seriously, my boyfriend loves cuff links. I love handbags. The world keeps spinning. The end.

WHAT THE FUCKING FUCKING CHRIST?!

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