Yikes! Way to heap on the guilt to the moms who want to breastfeed but can't or don't have a good supply. I hear guilt really helps up your supply, right??

Haha, I was trying to think of a clothing item and all I could come up with is "I buy a lot of cheese!" Maybe we should be friends!

Nope, it doesn't matter at all. Nothings going to make it okay to basically stalk a child.

I mean if the death of Princess Diana didn't change things in terms of paparazzi tactics, nothing will.

I just get caught up in how scary it can be for the kids. I don't know how actively and voraciously they go after Kristen Bell level stars' kids, but Ben Affleck/Jennifer Garner's kids or others like that its got to be scary. I mean, it's someone waiting at your school for you to arrive everyday just to take your…

Linking to the photos he's trying to prevent from being taken and distributed... interesting.

You're right, but I can't edit or delete the comment so...? Pedantic I can see, but holier than thou you might be reading more into it than I intended.

I've gotta say, being "blessed" with both male and female factor infertility was a teeny upside to my situation with my husband. It was no one's "fault" and we were doing it to each other, if you think of it that way (which we didn't really).

Oh of course! I was absolutely talking about it in a long term, once the grieving is done situation.

Exactly. I had no intention of belittling what she's going through. My only intention at all was to say (meant in a supportive way) that its not true that she cannot be a mother. If being a mother is important to her, she will find a way. I don't know anyone who has wanted to parent/nurture/affect the life of a child…

Totally read this and got all "WTF did my dad do!?" lol I get it now.

I would never tell an infertile person, or any person, to "just adopt" but it is just not true that she lost her ability to be a mother. She lost her ability to carry a child, huge difference. Absolutely a horrible prospect if you want to carry a child, but she can still be a parent if she wants.

'I did this to myself. Because I had gastric bypass and because I went through all of these things, I took away the opportunity to be a mom.'

It was horrible to fork out the cash, but I have to say my 2 year olds LOVE Little Gym. And its so fun to see them enjoy it. Good luck! And I hear you on the sleep, there is little I wouldn't try :)

Its even hard taking advantage of willing family friends (I have a couple of those, but no friends or family nearby) too often. I think while not visiting relatives, my husband and I have been on 3 dates since our twins were born 2 years ago! When we visit relatives though, after those kids go to bed we are out the…

Kids gyms are super duper expensive (in my experience) because of the high cost of insurance.

If you don't mind paying an arm and a leg, there's also The Little Gym. I think they have classes practically from birth.

Oh my lord, that is even better!!!! That's awesome!

I'd be cool with the Transformer one, so long as I also had regular photos. Though, I'd go dinosaur before Transformer personally.

Gymnast.