I was worried that my husband’s ex, who has always been chilly towards me but not crazy at all, would suddenly turn crazy and try to ruin our wedding somehow.

Your wedding sounds like it was super fun!

Ew! What a self-centered loon.

In the ex’s mind, it’s all about him. That’s why he can justify to himself being just as upset paying for his own wedding as he is that you’ve moved on. Some people are only happy when they’re the victims.

In college once I had a panic attack in the middle of the night and called my ex out of desperation because I didn’t want to sleep alone. He told me that no, he could not come over, and I could just *tell* from the tone of his voice that he had someone over. I felt like an idiot. I didn’t know how to express at the…

I fell hard for a guy and did not handle the break-up well, but eventually moved on. I got engaged to a wonderful man and then saw that ex got engaged too. Which, great, I’m happy for them, I’ve moved on. But then they got married before we did and I was surprised that it irked me.

My husband and his ex still talk regularly on mostly good terms because they had two children together and are both very involved in the kids’ lives. But obviously she wasn’t happy about him remarrying. Fortunately there was nothing too dramatic (though she makes a point of barely speaking to me), but she did tell him…

I dated a lovely guy for a few months and then moved back home... in a different country. I admit I should have moved on, but I didn’t, and I made things super awkward the next time I visited. It took a while for me to get over him, even though all our mutual friends well telling me that srsly he was just not that…

I admit to being disappointed that one of my exes got married before me when I in fact was engaged before him. Grr!

It’s the short relationships that can be the most bittersweet, because you never got to know how horribly matched you are with them. ;)

When you say you burn bridges, do you mean that you tell them in no uncertain terms to fuck off? I tend to just blank them in every aspect of my life — blocked on social media, deleted from address book, etc.

I never experienced this, but then again I’ve only had one or two long-term relationships worth remembering and have long since dropped contact with any ex-boyfriends.

“Donate” an mp3 to you? What a dick to offer you something as a gift but word it like you’re a charity case.

We had a middle school science teacher who would put his hand on a (always female) student’s shoulder while looking over their work, and slooooooooowly let that hand slide down a few inches.

Now that is just scary.

Bravo for swooping in and shutting that down before the bride got wind of it.

Why would a photographer do this? Slip the couple your card and get paid for an engagement shoot, don’t bundle it in to someone else’s time.

I now have an image of someone grabbing a travel-size bottle of barbeque sauce before heading out to a wedding and their partner says, “Seriously, this again?” “YOU NEVER KNOW!!” they cry, and head to the car.

Way to shut her down! I hope that friend covered from her bout of crazy.