Perhaps I've been looking for love in Alderaan places.

I actually had the opposite reaction. I would get super turned-on in my childhood room, and every girlfriend I've spent the holidays with has felt like this too.

This whole PUA thing is just sad for everyone involved. It's a bunch of sleazy self-promoters who make money conning desperate people into believing that they don't need to develop things like "a personality" or "social skills."