most have never even heard about it...

There is no longer any excuse for heterosexual men, as a group, to be bad at sex.

Late to the party, but several important points.

“basically nonstop puss eating”

You missed the more interesting part of the article, which was:

Yeah, as I said many of the newer misconceptions of novice subs have been more than annoying to correct.

Believe me, there are plenty of us in or on the verges of the scene who think it’s idiotic, I’m just not sure any of the straight male doms have written about it to that degree. :)

Thanks for posting. I’d never seen that, and it’s a useful link in case someone brings up a scene. This way I don’t have to reread the book and vomit.

In response to anisa-types’ comment on ‘strong dislike’ for sub fetishes and how those interested in it were ‘world-class creeps’ (despite the stated aversion to ‘kinkshaming’), I’ll repost a response that she dismissed. I hope some unfamiliar with BDSM might find it educational.

Both a bit comical and ineffective hitting dismiss when you’re in the greys and the person you’re dismissing isn’t.

Then you don’t really understand one of the main subcurrents of BDSM dynamics.

I’ll explain one dynamic that I’ve heard about from friends that may explain a bit of why this is going on. (Apologies for the distinctly hetero orientation on this, but I generally don’t talk to gay friends about their sex life.)

You’d be surprised at how many nominally conservative women actually do play this way, and it’s been helpful for getting them to explore something they’ve wanted to try.

Jumping on a burner here to say that the community’s view is a bit more nuanced.