Dude, get a grip snip.

I don't want to go too deep into it here, but it comes up around sex for us. Things I don't like, and why, and how I don't like being badgered into sex when I am not up for it.

I really hate to pry, but in what context do you have to remind?

I don't really need to keep talking about it. I explained what happened. Him intentionally blocking it out so that I have to explain it over and over is not my favorite thing.

He is very good and very loving. And he is coming from a good place, one where he can't handle me having been hurt like that. But, if I have to handle it, can't he?

thanks for sharing this. i have gotten this reaction from many good, loving men in my life. its good to know i'm not the only one.

Literally, the only thing I would want to wear in this whole show is this gilded feather cape...thingie.

Yeah, I'm not at all upset about being dumped by this one - major bullet dodged.

Because male insecurity is so much worse and so much more important than the trauma of being sexuality assaulted. Ugh. Some people will just find any excuse to make it all about them.

Yeah, combined with major insecurity. He said no guy wants to think about his girl with some other guy or be compared. FFS, you think I was comparing my rapist to you while being raped? Fucking self absorbed idiot.

I told an ex I was raped and he said I was tainted, damaged, and a part of me had died. He then said we should get back together because now I was as miserable and worthless as him. Regular Don Draper.

wow "feels like cheating"? Narcissist level fifty.

Oh hey my ex did that! He told me to never tell him if another guy touched me without my consent, because it felt like I cheated on him.

I told an ex I'd been sexually assaulted and he said "yeah, you seem like that kind of girl."

Wut.

Requisite

Based on Chuck's track record, I'd say there almost no chance he actually got it right. Chuck reports any rumor that sounds like it's a big secret.

You really shouldn't have published this. I never would've stumbled onto her name, if that's what it is, without this article. Not helping.

What an unbelievably fucking hateful thing to do.

Well, it may just be my prejudices against carefully groomed, narrow lined facial hair, but based on that photoI wouldn't be surprised.

as an avid podcast listener, I'm avoiding this serial bullshite like the plague. Endless hours of amazing comedy content available for years but just like anything else, the genre exploded over something the hipster world spread about a false imprisonment which doesn't necessarily have proof the guy was wrongfully…