I'm sure you're triggered right now and so you don't care, but I want to tell you that it's not very nice to tell me I'm gross. You can find my fantasies gross if you want to, but I'm a person too and I don't deserve to be insulted for disagreeing with you. I haven't insulted you and I've been talking with you in good…

then stop talking to me.

Yes, I agree. And kids and animals can’t consent so they’re automatically out. And rape is illegal, so obviously that’s out.

I understand that you think and feel that way. As a person who has studied sexuality, I’m afraid that we disagree. And your pedophilia comparison, while hugely offensive, is illustrative. Pedophiles can’t control their fantasies, in fact, and it isn’t curable. There is therapy to help them reduce their impulsivity,…

No one is asking you to relate. But you can not relate and still not judge others for their kinks.

Jeez, MOM. Do you have to comment on every website I like? *flounces out, slams door in a huff*

(probably more accurate)

a French banker nearly twenty years her senior. This sentence was already perfect, nothing less than a greying French bank for either of the Olsen twins

I was coming to say “forever in my brain as Veter Van Der Peen.” Or “Peter Pan Der Peen”

I finally quit smoking a year ago and I don’t really want to smoke anymore and I see now how truly gross it is.

He is well known and frequently discussed on a few fashion sites (where issues like hot handlers are debated.) He is fondly referred to as “Steroid Picard”..

Mary-Kate Olsen looks like a tiny French child next to her new husband and his daughter.

So the barest suggestion that maybe not every living male on the planet is a potential rapist is offensive? Grow the fuck up.

Please remember that kink shaming is not okay

we can’t just blithely accept the idea that all women have come to BDSM and rape fantasies in healthy, non-damaging ways

You realize that men can have rape fantasies as well, while also not being rapists, and that there isn’t anything wrong with that, right?

Because some of us enjoy it, and who the fuck are you to tell us we’re wrong?

Stop your porn bullshit. Regardless of how you feel about porn, it has nothing to do with that here, it’s the story of a girl raped by her ex, who everyone is gushing over.

We actually worked through it. I know that sounds like bullshit, but we went to therapy and I was able to forgive and he was able to change and never pull that shit ever again. We were also really young. That’s the difference I think, between more violent/power driven rape and domestic rape that happens in an…

That’s not just the bottom line of “no”, it’s the entire book. If you’re having sex with someone while on a ledge, and the only way you could possibly stop is by throwing yourself off the ledge, when they use their safeword, you throw yourself off the ledge, and ask if they’re ok on your way down. There are NO…