There are certain combination of features that you find in all groups. But maybe you’ve been dating the same person all along?

Oh, that’s totally fair! I just couldn’t let “waxed in the important areas” pass by without some sort of comment.

Jewish and/or Eastern European men with long, curly hair and facial hair will always turn my head. Possibly because I married a man who fits this description :)

I don’t think it’s relevant whether or not someone has control over a particular attribute. People don’t have control over their age either and there’s nothing wrong or unusual about dating only within your own age range.

Yeah, I think some people don’t get this point about preference vs. exclusion. Like if I say you shouldn’t a priori state that you don’t date men/women of race X, that doesn’t mean you must date men/women of race X. We all have preferences and biases, but as long as you’re open to dating people outside those targets,…

I can’t with these bitches who try to seem “exclusive” or “special” or whatever by being a big bitch like that.

Also, I think there’s a big difference of having a preference and STATING out loud that you have a preference. It may just so happen that someone likes pale skin or darker skin (or, conversely, is turned off by either of those things). But saying, “I will only date this race or that race,” or “I will not date this…

Omg same!! some guy actually said to me “ The attraction is not really there, but why don’t you show me what you are working with so I can give you a shot?”...HELL NAH!

But so what if it is?

My types, drunkenly ranked: 1. Adderall over Dexedrine. 2. masturbating with my non-dominant hand. 3. Samsung over Apple. 4. Mango over Apple. 5. Witty, independent, funny, and waxed in the important areas. 6. 1987 Mel Gibson over 2007 Mel Gibson. 7. Zanax over Klonipin. 8. Ocho muy bueno. 9. Boneless wings over bone…

The whole exchange was exasperating.

On the plus side, he could’ve said all that AFTER you’d sucked his dick. I mean, no one should be a racist dickbag, but if you’re gonna be a racist dickbag, let’s get it out of the way early, you know?

Like, does he not realize mixed people exist?

And if your “type” is a race that’s differnt than yours, you’re just a “fetishist.”

I’m not really sure what this changes in practice, though. If I don’t find my friend or my neighbor attractive, but then get change my mind as I get to know him, there’s no problem. If I don’t find a guy on OkCupid attractive, it’s asking a lot to expect me to invest enough time in getting to know him in hopes of…

I never thought I had a type because my taste is so completely all over the map. But then on a comment on Gawker once MizJenkins posted a picture that showed how Heidi Klum and Seal have the same exact face.

I dunno, speaking as someone who guys have dated to prove they’re not shallow/”Your personality makes up for your looks” and then was promptly dumped when they found a girl they were actually attracted to, I actually kind of prefer people date within their types. (Or, at the very least, don’t date me when I’m not…

That sort of sexual policing gives me rapey vibes. It suggests that we have to go against our own bodies and experiences to somehow fuck our way to social justice - which is gross. I don’t need to be shamed or coerced into having sex that I don’t want to have, especially not when its only to further a narrative.

Gay…

Fair point. But from what little I know of them, she seems like the nicest one of the bunch.

While normally I would love to stan for the owner of a brothel (obvious reasons), this Hof dude is a wang and so is Nancy Grace and they are both super gross.