I love me some self-righteous indignation and getting paid to do nothing, so I would absolutely take the course.

He's not dumb at all, and he writes really well too. The reason he hasn't studied more comes from family and money issues more than lack of ability or intelligence. It just frustrates me that he can be so unengaged a lot of the time.

I really avoid being condescending, because I don't want to be that guy either. But he just generally seems very unengaged. I watch John Oliver all the time when he's in the room, and I try to point out clips from him that would be more tuned to his to his interests, like the student loans one a little while ago…

Hey guys, I haven't commented here in FOREVER, mostly because I've been pretty happy (screw you, ya bunch of miserable people with your issues!), but now I have problems!!

BECAUSE CONVERSATIONS ARE SO SCARY!

Okay, so before I start you should know I am a millennial too (aren't we the best?!), but I completely sympathize with your guy.

I'm only recently coming out as bi, and am dating a guy right now. One of my friends thinks it's inconceivable that I could be with a guy and not cheat on him with girls because they would satisfy other needs. I think that argument is silly.

I KNOW! And I like muscles and hair and all that stuff too. But, in practice, I can't stop hooking up with guys that make me feel age-inappropriate (and I'm only 25!).

Eh, I may think I am more mature than I actually am. Don't be shocked if I'm here next week talking about how I managed to engineer another threesome. But, hey, at least maybe there'll be some penetration involved, and the story will sound better.

I actually do know that, but I was trying to respect idiotking's life choices and self-appointed name. Plus, it just looks fancier!

Grant it that I'm new to the gay scene, but I find this a bit weird too. I suppose it's mostly because I don't automatically associate sex with penetration, but even if you're both tops, I see no reason not to meet up to make out and at least suck each other off.

I don't really consider it a threesome either, but less because of the lack of penetration than because as far as I know only me and my boyfriend came, and only after the other guy left the room. Still, it's my first three-way experience and I think I deserve some kind of badge!

I'm really wary of sending anything of anyone doing anything without getting their okay first, so this may be a personal position but I think having sent the videos to PJ without Matt's okay was the real mistake there. You tried to do the right thing with Matt later, but by then it was too late, and I can understand…

Taking the dick is probably the best alternative there, but I haven't bottomed too often, so I need some help getting it in there, actually.

Yeah, that's true. But I haven't bottomed too many times either, so it's new territory for me too. I'm not sure how effective I'd be in trying to be a dominant bottom. And I find it funny that, for as much as he likes being fucked, he really isn't too interested in being fingered.

That's the response I expect! The gays will totally judge me, and I really don't want gay judgment upon me or my anal sex preferences.

I do think he's open to it (I mean, he did make the effort at least once!), but I may have been to quick to drop it when he lost his boner. Next time I'll see if he can get into at least fingering me or using a dildo, and see how it goes from there.

I'd rather get fucked, but stimulation might be enough. Like I said above, I did buy a prostate stimulator that I used on him. Will try to get him to use it on me soon, and see where we can go from there. I have no idea why, though it could be because I've only started sleeping with men relatively recently, but I am…

Hey, I created an account at the TI boards. I'll see if I can at least contribute more often!

I had no idea fisting lube was a thing. Uh… not that I'm into it. It's for a friend, I swear!