yap same here with reaction.

AT LEAST ED MEDS.

Well done! The part about shielding her made me laugh because it's so true- no one knows enough to leave the bride or groom the fuck alone while they're trying to eat! What's wrong with people?

BLASPHEMER

I'm honestly surprised The Rock isn't a mani/pedi kind of guy. I could totally see him getting his nails done.

Push-ups are seriously the best. Both regular push-ups and tricep pushups.

I disagree. If I were unable for whatever reason to have sex with my girlfriend, I would encourage her to seek sex (discreetly) outside of our relationship and I would expect her to do the same for me. Sex is an integral part of a relationship and it's unfair to expect your partner to support you while sick and give…

I 100% believe sex positive means knowing what you want in sex (including not having it) and not being judged, mocked, or called names for it. You know you couldn't have an open marriage. I think that's great you know that you about yourself. There's no shame in that.

Thank you for explaining to me why cheating is wrong. I totally didn't understand that. I haven't said repeatedly in other posts that I understand why it's problematic. I thought cheating was a great thing that everyone can aspire to!

You seem to have COMPLETELY missed my point. I didn't say cheating isn't wrong, I…

I did think, for about 10 seconds, that this had to be a sexual euphemism. But then I figured out they're just goofballs who own a cat. As one should be.

She didn't say anything about "kink that I won't do". That isn't an accurate paraphrase of "a kink of his that I'm not able to do due to physical limitations for both of us—I don't want to hurt him".

Except for the kink that she *can't* do. Important difference there. Also, the kink might not involve sex. A lot of kinks don't.

When I was online dating, a lot of men who tried to get with me conveniently had open marriages - I am ok with that, but definitely not willing to be a participant in actual cheating, so I required the wife to tell me personally she was ok with it. I suspect some of them had a don't ask, don't tell arrangement, but…

I don't mean this in a rude way and you absolutely don't have to, but can you cite studies showing that that is why most people cheat? In my personal experience (which is totally anecdotal and not worth much), that's not why the people I've known who have cheated did it. I've done zero research on this though, so I…

Well, I don't really see why they can't be empathetic to both sides. It's a shitty situation all around, usually, and both parties are usually struggling a lot with things.

I think you could probably describe all relationships as "this works until it doesn't". Every relationship has pros and cons that need to net positive in order to work for both sides, and the unfortunate reality is that medical issues have created this one. Maybe at some point their relationship won't be worth it to…

The interviewee clearly states there are physical limitations that she has so that a professional sex worker is the reasonable option.

Yes, empathy. Thank you for mentioning the word. It's easy to condemn cheating in general, but when a friend whom you've known for years and whose situation you're bff-familiar with tells you she's having an affair, it becomes a lot harder to bring down the gavel of judgment.

Thank you for sharing, Amy. I'm also befuddled by the overwhelming negative comments about Ashley Madison and cheating in general on Jez. THAT is the one topic guaranteed to get tongues clucked and pearls clutched, like no other.

how do you not have a clear as shit mental picture