Canonically, I believe it is stated that she knows best

I only clicked on the story to check for that inclusion in the list.

slamming doors is my trigger from childhood

This. And everyone is different and missionary is actually one of the positions where I can have an orgasm from sex alone without any clitoral stimulation. 

That’s not fair. No need to police how someone gets off. I thought kink shaming was considered bad form... (and this isn’t even really kink, the headline literally references vanilla).

Definitely agree. Missionary is fun! You can look each other in the eye, kiss and grope each other... What’s also fun is talking and finding out about each other’s kinks and preferences. The more you openly communicate, the better your sex will be.

Boring in fine not everything in life has to be a thrill ride.

Are we still on this “missionary is vanilla” bullshit? If any position is vanilla, it’s doggy, the position humans and animals have been doing since the dawn of sex. Besides, missionary gives you easy access to the front, and there’s a lot of fun stuff on people’s fronts.

Missionary is great and I’m tired of people pretending it’s boring. Sex is only boring if the participants are boring.

That’s terrible that it all happened to you; I don’t mean to minimize or dismiss, and I apologize if I come off like that, but part of why my experience is so confusing to me is that I didn’t have the sort of environment you had while growing up. I can’t put my finger on an instance or pattern where “loud sudden sound…

Lifehacker has thrown off the shackles of the Herb and I am here for it! Death to slideshows. 

hear, hear!

Yes! 

I’d argue 50+% of 14 year olds are in middle school

Damned if she does, damned if she doesn’t.

*this*. If my kid was having a birthday party, I'd be with them. Stuff Charlie not and the royal slapper!

I would argue that poor management is what drove the collapse, with the bank run being the inciting incident

Divorce him if that’s what you want. You’re still part of this flaming clown car dumpster fire until you actually make some sacrifices to separate yourself from that rapist. 

Then why isn't the baby in the hospital now? If the child is in legal custody of someone other than her parents because they wouldn't admit her to the hospital, then why hasn't that happened yet?

I’m a black pediatrician and something signficant is missing from this story. The reasons why black families choose midwives and home births are unfortunate and justified by how they are treated. And jaundice is a common condition that doesn’t require treatment...until it does. And then when it does, it needs to be…