As a dude I'd like to weigh in. I feel like strippers want to cause arousal. That arousal may lead to more lap dances, or even a trip to the back room. That's the point of giving a lap dance. Making money by arousing said dude. Boners, I would think, are just par for the course. However, when you're dancing (just…

But when Kate Upton eats a cheeseburger all sexy like, the masses are enraged! Cue the double standards!

I'm happy that someone else shares my thoughts on this too, and that someone else is even willing to engage in a thoughtful conversation. This site sucks for that. If you have differing opinions and aren't a complete dick about them, troll baiting if you will, nobody will respond to you. But seriously. That would be…

This is a terribly intelligent back and forth we have going. I understand your thoughts completely through you posting random gifs. Thanks for the insight.

So white people aren't allowed to do anything "black"? Sounds a bit racist to me.

So wait. She's white. She's in a video where she's wearing a grill and twerking. And that's not okay because she's not black? Because only black people can do these things? Or, only those who grew up in ghetto areas, like Eminem, can do these things? So what's the message here? That only black people or ghetto white…

How did you get to rape from a man paying for a woman's dinner? I have no problem paying for a woman's dinner when I take her out, in fact I expect to. And once in a relationship, if it goes that way, I expect to be treated to outings by my gf. So I'm with you, I have no problem with this double standard. I get…

I would agree. You can't write an editorial knocking something but picture something else.

Whoa whoa. Not all of us are looking to bash feminists every chance we get. Furthermore, I thought that hat was a fedora in the picture, and didn't know the Indiana Jones wore a legit fedora. That being said, most guys I know anyway would punch any guy wearing a trilby in the face. They just scream douchebag.

Who cares? I think the discussion should be focused on racists being racists, not going out shopping for a black friend. I've read through a lot of the comments, and I like the ones that talk about certain interests not being shared across certain cultures. I rock climb, ski, hike, mountain bike, kayak, camp etc. In…

I want one in my house now. Think about it. It's late, you're drunk, you stumble into the bathroom in the dark, and you just go. No worrying about pissing on the seat and having to clean it up. No worries about the wife or gf getting wet ass from said piss. It's the ultimate luxury. And if you're naked, you don't even…

We have a women in our office who does the same. Every Friday $1 a minute for a chair massage. She also does full body massages out of her home. I went there for one this one time. I wish I had a weird story to go along with it, but nope. Just got the massage and that's it. I don't feel weird, but the thought had…

I elected myself, good mantis shrimp of the briny deep! The lady of the lake, her arm clad in the purest, shimmering samite, held aloft the Phallus shaped spokesman bullhorn, making it so, that I was to speak for men everywhere, on issues of the blow job.

Yes, that is indeed what I meant. I feel like most women who finish with the mouth though, swallow, and the ones who don't swallow finish with a handie. That's why I said it in the way that I did.

Your husband is lying. He wants you to swallow. He knows he's not going to get it though so he's made himself okay with it because let's be honest. Nobody is going to turn down a beej because the woman doesn't swallow. But, here's why it's better. Not swallowing is like pulling out during sex. It's still awesome, but…

I'm not anybody to tell anybody else to take ownership over themselves. It just pisses me off when I see others blaming everything else for whatever. It doesn't even have to be about being fat. It can be about anything. But people don't like to take the responsibility for it. So they blame McDonalds being so cheap and…

How about, how the hell cares? If you're monogamous and you're happy, good on ya'. If you're poly and you're happy, fantastic. Does it really matter why we got this way? I'm happy with my one girlfriend. I want her all to myself and she wants me all to herself. No poly going on here. Are we that way because of…

Black Bean Burgers are the shit for serious.

I didn't bully anybody. Telling someone they need to take ownership over themselves is not bullying. It's asking someone to take responsibility for their actions. Also, I said generally being fat isn't healthy. Generally being the key word there. Obviously you were an exception. I knew a woman who was super skinny as…

Because nobody wants to actually take responsibility for being over weight. They don't like it, but either don't want to change it or don't know how, so they blame everything else but their lifestyle. Sure, some people may have other shit going on, but nobody likes being over weight. People try to change themselves…