That sounds complicated and as if their relationship could potentially blow up. Enjoy it while it's drama-free!

I read that scene just a few days ago. It was truly bizarre and rather off-putting. Maybe it's there for shock value? This is the second time I read the book, and I find it hard to figure out a real, good plot reason for that scene. I really don't think cutting that scene would have had a negative impact on the story.

Putting together a good profile is hard! I think I suck at that. I've met a few people from dating sites, but it's hard for me to get to that point. I'd prefer to get some conversation going before meeting, but it seems everyone is rushing to meet the next day, and that gives me panic attacks. I disappoint myself.

For what it's worth, I've had relationships with three bi guys, and the only one I felt any insecurity around was the guy who used to roll off after sex and exclaim "Ah! I need a man!!!" I don't know if I'm in a minority or not, but I prefer to date bi men over straight men. So yeah, if a girl doesn't like bi guys,…

The one in the beginning of the book?

I'm incredibly sad I'm sharing country with someone like that! (And really, what does their country of origin have to do with their kink?)

I'm wondering this as well.

There must be something wrong with this pack I found the other day then. They expired several months ago. I threw them away, but now I realise how lucky I am that the house didn't burn down!

Now I want to send you a care package with cookies.

That really did sound kind of creepy! I'm sorry that shit happened to you.

Yes. I prefer anal sex to vaginal sex, actually.

No. I've had to put some real effort into finding the both the gay and the BDSM porn on Tumblr! Also, there's an extension called XKit for it that gives you a pretty good control over your Tumblr experience, including blocking posts that include certain words or tags.

Him not thinking it's a big deal doesn't actually mean it's not a big deal. You told him no and it was not respected, and if he can't see that 's a big deal, then you should probably stay very far away from him. You have every right to be skeeved out by this, and it's also fine that you didn't get more upset than you…

It's not on you that she hasn't prioritized and done the things she's really wanted to do, though. Taking her disappointment and frustration out on you isn't fair. There's lots of stuff I have wanted to do, but didn't follow up on, didn't make a priority in my life, and really, I can only blame myself for that, and…

It's not exactly easy to solve anything when it's being ignored and pushed down, yeah. But at the same time, if you can't afford it… It's just so unfair for both of you (and kids), living in this unhappiness. It makes me sad to think of anyone having to just put up with it because there are no solutions. Unraveling or…

I'm fine with you dumping it on me! That is an incredibly shitty situation. Truly no-win, as you say. It is really unreasonable to me that she blames you for much of this, and also… Moving to another country and doing all of that is such a huge change. I can't imagine someone doing that without actually meaning it.…

I'm sorry you're in an unhappy marriage, Cookie! That is really terrible. I'm happy with my single life just because I have been a very long, very horrible relationship before (never married the guy though, thank god), so I know that it's much better to be single than to be unhappily attached to someone.

Same. I really miss having someone to just hug or cuddle with… (and of course the hot, steamy sex) Someone I can explore life with, grow old together with, etc. I like my single life, but yeah, I'd prefer to not be lonely.

I think I go for fully miserable music when I'm down, like Dead Souls by Joy Division, which is completely devoid of joy.

You talk about yourself? I thought I was talking about myself!