Can you tell us more thingz without the brain hurty numbers and words? Please I need to know if I can conserve my outrage tonight.

Honestly the first stuff I saw him in was NOTHING like that. In fact they were scenes that weren't remotely rough, and as his ex said, he made it *look* fun/romantic/involved. We know, now, that that wasn't the case (in contrast to a rough looking scene actually having an actor help the partner out in a kind way…

Yeah, I got a distinct vibe of men feeling that boys must need their father’s influence and care as much as possible, but don’t care about providing their daughters with the same. Probably a little of column A, column B, and column fuck this noise.

If I had a nickel for every mediocre white man that told me women don’t care about looks I would be rich.

There’s just no winning today. I’ll try to try again tomorrow.

I think you may be onto something without realizing it. Could the gap be coming from a different reason that is as equally sexist? Like men aren’t spending more time with their sons over their daughters because, “Ew, girls.” But more to the line of thinking, “What do women know about raising boys? I need to be more…

He wasn’t a disgusting homonculus like most of the men in hetero porn. It’s really that simple. Relatively attractive, boy next door type, not repulsive. That’s really all it takes. The bar is almost non-existent.

Here’s a theory: so many women are made to feel weird about liking sex, especially kinky sex. This is one of the reasons why I think 50 Shades of Grey was such a phenomenon. It allowed a bunch of women to explore these desires and be open about it in a way that didn’t feel shaming. When a bunch of average gals are…

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Ironically, he looks harmless with his shorter than average height and his slight build. Especially compared to his much taller, overly built, super-masculine co-workers. He has that boy next door that wouldn’t hurt a fly look down cold. And the fact that despite look harmless, he is rough in bed? For many women, that…

There has never been a truer statement. Deen just looks like a regular white dude. He is not tall, not super built...he is just a white dude. Women are taught this because most of the mediums we watch are run by mediocre white men.

This has to be the most simpleminded sexism ever. What could possibly be different in the utility of caring for baby girls versus baby boys? They all need to sleep, eat and shit every 2 hours. That’s all.

Women in America are taught to love mediocre white men and that’s him in a nutshell.

The thing I never really got was how many women loved him and were well aware how much he absolutely smacked the fuck out of many of the women he did scenes with. I mean I like rough stuff but his brand is a little much for me.

Can someone explain his (former) appeal? I get that many women probably find him quite attractive (or used to, anyway), but how does anyone go from “he’s hot and has a nicely shaped and clean-looking penis” to “this man, in particular and above all others, is the best example of a male pornstar who makes porn more…

Yes exactly! I was also pretty bummed by that article. Sometimes the knee jerk pro-porn types will go really overboard defending it.

I wouldn’t say the stuff Deen stars in is “sex-positive porn”

Remember folks, flag and dismiss the trolls. DO NOT ENGAGE.

Ever since this story broke, I’ve been quietly fumbling around for the right words to describe why I didn’t like James Deen, because trying to makes me feel like I’m taking a superior shit on people who did. And I really don’t want to do that. I don’t think enjoying his performances is anything anyone should be…

His fans are being so gross on Instagram. I think it’s the only safe place they have to be 100% supportive towards Deen and vile towards Stoya. Don’t even go to that place unless you want to rage. You have all these young girls claiming that it’s impossible to rape your girlfriend, that Stoya likes it rough, and that…