Charming, wholesome men are sexy. John Legend, Paul Rudd, Russell Wilson types who project security, safety. Ever wake up to a man smiling at you with kind eyes? Instant horniness. That shit is sexy.

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While in grad school at NYU many moons ago, I worked for an atelier who made the grandest of grand gowns and whatnot for social circles I had no idea even existed. A simple blouse from the designer easily went for north of $900—which while jaw dropping in the monetary sense—made PERFECT sense when you saw how the…

Just came here to say “I have had with these motherfucking snakes in my motherfucking drain”.

My mom used to say you should never date a man who spends more time on his hair than you do, which of course is sexist, but then I see Gaetz and I see her reasoning clearly.

One major piece of advice I can give you is to own less stuff. The less stuff you own the less there is to take care of. At some point, I had to accept that I was too irresponsible to take care of things. Since my basic makeup wasn’t going to change, the basic makeup of my living conditions would have to. Accepting…

It’s weird how badly we want what we can’t have.

I lost a bunch of belly fat!! I stopped eating most sugar stuff a few months ago, and then a couple weeks ago I started a 3 month diet and exercise program through my healthplan that is less about “diet” and more about changing life habits. I’ve been eating a ton of veggies and fruits and smaller portions or meat, and…

I’ve been hyper-careful during this whole time, and also find myself inclined to judge those who aren’t, but ultimately I came to figure out that it just is not worth my time, energy, or the cost on my mental health to hold onto or cultivate anger or negative feelings against people. Me being mad at them won’t change…

It’s true! I feel crappy on Mondays because we both work all weekend and the apartment gets tattered. But Tuesdays I do a shorter workout and clean, and have a lovely apartment for my day off.

Moms, amiright? Mine used to say, “A change is as good as a rest”, and that could apply to your situation as well; you did something different. I often find that if I feel “stuck” and depressed, doing anything gives me a feeling of control and agency, and it sounds like you accomplished a lot in just a few hours.

The main thing is trying to break the programming from the moment you were born to accommodate other people at the cost of your personal well being. It’s one thing for two people to agree that each person should do around their house “what they’re good at” but it’s another thing for men to take for granted that women…

You want to change the Senate? Start working to get those who felt abandoned by the Democratic Party: Blue collar workers. Many of these were previously hard blue voters (believe me, I know these guys from working in OH and PA), but when Hilary ran, many felt she was catering to the college educated and not the blue…

Update: Dad came through.

Y’all?

It’s that same vibe of the dude who hurts you, and then immediately turns it around about how sorry he is and what an awful person he is, so that you’re supposed to end up comforting him instead.

DID SOMEBODY SAY TOTINO’S??????

It frustrates me to no end how badly she got hosed by the Hays code. Her first few movies are so goddamn funny and then they just get more and more stilted and awkward as she got more and more censored.

Here’s my Mae cosplay, from I’m No Angel.

It’s the squirrels ruining our plants over here, agents of chaos and destruction!

“Sex changes everything.”