I can’t see the comments. You can also call the an abuse hotline. I’m sorry, it’s terrifying place to be. And soon he will start reaching out to her, being very, very sorry. Understanding the cycle, and being in the middle of things are very different. Remember, her spirit is hurt too. Treat her very gently, take…

Good for you! It’s so hard to see your daughters not being treated well. I have girls just slightly older than your daughter. And I worked with abused women years many ago. One thing that has been helpful to people I’ve talked to is to call a local or national hotline. It’s important to understand the cyclic…

So, I had a prolapse fixed and it was great. You deserve the best of health and pleasure in your life. I can’t tell how old you are, but if you are menopausal, ask about an e-ring. Vaginal estrogen ring. I use one (love it) and my woman surgeon said using it beforehand will help healing. I think it was out during…

So, I read about this a long time ago, and it made so much sense and is so hard. People who write in a journal every day about being let go, go back to work significantly faster. The researchers concluded that the emotional work of journaling about their emotions, allowed them to process faster and they didn’t…

Thank you!  These are all incredibly helpful, and this internet invisible friend is very appreciative. Thanks for the local language tips, we tend to cruise on being from Alaska, undeservedly. Those will be helpful!  

So, I always have to do something to set people on the path before I cut them loose. Make a list, starting with the VA social worker and including social security, any senior assistance programs you know and hand it over. He may be eligible for Military disability, even partial would help with his situation. Write…

You can make the most lovely red jelly with red currents.  Also, a fab sauce for pork or beef.  

Hi everyone, I’m hoping for travel advice. We are flying into San Francisco in late July and taking a family trip to see the redwoods. We are renting a camper van and just kicking around. There is a reservation at Big Basin state park, I don’t have much more lined up. Does anyone have recommendations for norther…

I remember so clearly how everything was so overwhelming when I quit drinking. It’s just hard, the first year I hit a major depression, quit cleaning, couldn’t get out of bed, just like you described. Somehow, I heard something in the meetings that let me hang on and not drink. I’m also incredibly stubborn. Gradually,…

I know, there’s a lot of different ways that people get through when they stop drinking.  I also don’t have the belief that some people do.  However, it is helpful and healing to be with other people trying to be sober.  It’s ok if it’s an imperfect fit, there might be something there that helps you. Also, try…

Oh, mushroom pie?  Do tell, that sounds amazing.  I’ve never heard of it before, but now must know more. 

AA gave me a thorough understanding of my disease and I have been able to stay sober. I don’t feel god, did a few 12 steps, but mostly listened and learned from other people who were trying to step out of chaos. What really caught me was the phrase “my life has become unmanageable.” I’d lost so much, and my…

Thank you!

So, I think I’m fairly well read and typically understand obscure research and difficult text. I would have reached the same conclusion, I can’t imagine reaching any other conclusion from the phrase “death recorded.” But, reviewers are essential for any serious writing. Somebody in my circle will know, collective…

That’s a clear fluid and should be just fine.  

So, I have two grown kids living with my husband and I. We all get along and it’s going really well, but they are not acting like great roommates. We all work and have different schedules. I’m trying to switch the house to one where we all work and contribute to the common good. I’m tired of being mom and don’t want…

My husband did vinyl plank and I love it.  Our floor is uneven as well, we put down a cushy cork underlayment and the vinyl is flexible, so it floated over imperfections.  It took some head scratching but came out well.  Maybe you can hire a guy to come and show you how to do it or take a class at Home Depot. There’s…

I took an online course on happiness.  A few years ago I decided to set increasing happiness as a goal.  The course was helpful, one thing that stuck with me is that social media is shown to decrease happiness.   Could a brief pause be helpful?   I take weekends off if I feel low.  Hope you feel better, are there some…

I’m so sorry. May peace be with you during this hard time. When we were sorting out these type of questions for my dad, the hospital social worker was a huge help. Also, if your dad is a vet, the VA might have resources. The VA has really improved in how they provide services.  

I package mine nicely, nothing fancy, but separate them into ziplock baggie gift sets. An eye shadow, a lippie, some skin care items, original boxes if they are handy and take them to the teen shelter.  Then if you don’t like what you get, you can trade around.