I definitely agree with you. I wasn’t trying to imply that her consenting to go into his apartment was consent for the shittiness that followed, just that it could be reasonably construed by Ansari that she had a sexual interest in him (which does NOT mean, as you pointed out: “I want to fuck tonight” or “I’m down for…

ohhhhhhhh snaaaaaapppppppppp THIS!!!!

I agree that his lack of respect for her non-verbal/ “soft” cues constitutes a violation of consent. But if we’re being honest, asking someone up to your apartment after a date is a social cue for fucking (whether or not it SHOULD be is a topic within the realm of uneven male/female power dynamics and institutional…