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I'm pretty sure I know exactly which episode that's from . . . great gif!

You could try just talking to him. Something like, "What you said to me in the parking lot the other day really upset me. Please don't ever say something like that to me again." Then, he's been warned. If he does it again, or even non-verbally makes you uncomfortable, report him. I'd say it's well within reason

You are not crazy, but your feelings are not helping you here. Find your confidence in yourself, and to hell with other people. Their opinions of you, or you & him together, say more about them than they say about you! You and he are into each other, and as far as your relationship is concerned that is truly all

Maybe try a little trip to NYC with your bf first? Do some research about reasonable places to stay in neighborhoods you might like—try airbnb and the local Ys but definitely read reviews if you go the airbnb route! See how you guys feel wandering around various parts of the city, check out local job listings, and

I see lots of people have already given you good advice here, but I just want to add: do not let this woman make you feel guilty about "abandoning" your father. That is almost worse than everything else. If she truly cared about him, she would care about you, his child, and your well-being as well. This guilt-trip

I used to call a friend—we had a kind of understanding—he'd come over, or let me come over, at pretty much any hour. I tried not to abuse the privilege, you know? (He also sometimes called me—too drunk to take the train, and he'd stop by and I'd make him spaghetti.) I don't get those spells much any more—could be

Yes, I've had that experience, and no, I'm not sure I have any advice beyond what I keep meaning to try myself: meditation, mindfulness practice, yoga—I don't know which, but something I could do every day no matter what that would help me find/create a reliable place in myself I could go when I'm in trouble. I think

Yes, he/she is! You'll be so good for each other! Also, happy birthday. The economy/job market has to take a turn for the better at some point, right? Best of luck to you.

Well it sure as shit isn't your grammar and punctuation skills.

The way you phrased it was so great—hardboiled Raymond Chandler style: "the accountant happened to be dead." I can just hear Humphrey Bogart doing the closet dialogue: "Hello. How are you." "Not so great." "I can see why . . ." Love it. You need to write a noir novel!

'Kay, now can we hear "My Buddy"?

go home, troll

And let's not forget a forty-three year old woman in a summer dress.

Yes, but could you at least entertain the idea that the "rabid feminists" are not pretending?

Acceptable in theory, wrong in (your) practice.

I like woo woo

Oh. Because Grizabella gets to go up to the heavyside layer?

A question for the ages. Because they're confused? Because they saw it when they were 10 and nostalgia kicks in when they hear the music? Because full grown adults dressed up like cats singing and dancing?

I know, but . . .