YES. This.

I think that in certain instances they are competing goals, tbh.

I think that my problem with the whole thing comes when people value it as a goal above things like being efficient or hard-working or effective. That's when I take issue.

I'm not saying people need to be brutal, I'm saying that mincing around about things is not my preferred method of communication. And I'm certainly not saying people shouldn't say thanks either. I think I am just having a reaction to being told, yet again, that politeness is a virtue. I don't value it as a virtue…

I am all for trying to be polite, but sometimes when you are at work and shit is hitting the fucking fan, you just need things to get DONE. And if you waste time couching your words or beating around about it, then people tend not to take your directives seriously. Particularly when you are a woman. Sometimes, it's…

Yeah I think that it would be nice to keep one for wiping errant lipstick or patting a damp brow or something but I need my Kleenex!

I have to agree with this. With the way I blow my nose, that hanky would be full in 2 hours.

"So You Didn't Have To"

Kinja isn't letting me reply to you guys for some reason. Basically I think she looks the same as she did in Bend It Like Beckham. I wasn't meaning to imply she's some old crone. I just think she looks incredibly young, still. See also: Angelina Jolie.

She's another one of these women who I think secretly eat babies to keep from aging.

I hope Gaby Hoffman becomes a permanent fixture on the show because every solid laugh I got out of the show last night was a direct result of something she did.

Totally agreed on that. Literally my only problem is the bottom hem, which is because I am weirdly fastidious when it comes to red carpet looks.

This is weird but I wish the line were cleaner on the bottom half of the top. There is something about the way it hangs slightly askew that makes me think it is torn at the side. That said, the pink is lovely on her lips, her purse and her blouse and...DEM SHOES. They're hot as hell but I hope she got to take them off…

I really loved that version.

Ah, good point! Thanks.

I would watch all of those shows, tbh. I also really giggled at the Flava Flav/Wonder Years mashup.

Side effects of uppers include weight loss, so that's another clue. I've been watching his True Detective show and he looks gaunt, to say the least.

This looks like coke to me. Are we sure he hasn't finally gone through the Gateway Of Marijuana to the harder shit? That LONG SNORT after he talks about Woodward...I hope he's getting the most out of his drip. Jesus.

Dat Squalor tag.

dog nuzzling ensures that babies grow up to become polite and gregarious members of society, while iguana nuzzling ensures that babies eventually become lizard people