This. And sometimes a dude's behavior, lying about intention, being pushy, ignoring her resistance, etc. demonstrates that he is not taking her pleasure into account and will be a lousy lay. Who wants to risk pregnancy or disease for a shitty, unsatisfying three minutes? Maybe she just sobered up. Maybe she is just a…

This. And sometimes a dude's behavior, lying about intention, being pushy, ignoring her resistance, etc. demonstrates that he is not taking her pleasure into account and will be a lousy lay. Who wants to risk pregnancy or disease for a shitty, unsatisfying three minutes? Maybe she just sobered up. Maybe she is just a…

There are women out there for you and there are plenty of available toys (and body parts) you can use for penetration if that's what you're looking for. Look up terms like "bend over boyfriend." I don't know how big your dating area is (city or small town) but it would be a shame to not pursue what you like for lack…

That's actually why I used MSM (men who have sex with men), a term used by epidemiologists because gay is more encompassing re: emotional and physical attraction.

Obviously, take local economic standards into account...

My grandmother was Cherokee (I know everybody says that, but she was born and raised in Oklahoma and census data show place of residence as Indian Territory). She had waist-length jet-black hair well into her 70s. It only started going gray when she was being treated for cancer. She wore it in the milkmaid style…

Don't sell yourself short—get at least $40.

So, how would these creepy PUA-type straight males respond to a book about how to turn his "no" into a "yes"? Not a guide for straight women, but a guide for similarly-creepy MSM to get a straight guy to have sex with him. Like dude came over to your house to play video games so *obviously* he wants to have sex with…

I'm 48 and decided about 6 months ago to stop coloring my hair. I haven't done anything drastic since my 20s, just semi-permanent dye to match the rest of my head, but I realized I didn't actually know what my natural hair looked like. Turns out I've got a frame of WHITE around my face, with some strands of grey…

Following your lead, I typed in maps.google.com nyc and got this, which displays transit and road projects either underway or proposed, their details and cost. Very cool.

Often when an actor is really convincing at playing horrible, it's because they are exactly the opposite in real life.

Yep. There's being empathetic, polite and kind—those are timeless. This m'lady, hat-tipping stuff is from a *specific* era. Why choose that particular era? Those specific affectations are wrapped up in a romanticization of a past that wasn't really all that groovy for everybody.

Yeah, it was at that moment that I realized that my self-esteem had hit rock bottom that I was doing this dude on the regular. I tore his page out of my phone book (yes, actual paper phone book. It was in the 1980s).

I used to hook up with a guy who was a music producer who mostly fucked models. He bit my thigh once and declared that he loved my body because it was big like a peasant's. I...um...no. He also told me that I was one of the oldest women he slept with. I was 23.

Me too. Two cats needed to be pilled twice a day for ten days. I've got some lovely arabesque scratches and scars on my hands and forearms now. Cats are way too smart to be fooled by "pill pockets."

Yep, longest-inhabited continent on the planet and more genetic diversity from one end to the other than, say, between East Asia and Scandinavia. It's just math, really.

I don't know—I got a pretty bad gastroenterological infection once—exposure to fecal matter the doc said. I couldn't figure it out at all—I don't even eat meat and I wash my fruit and vegetables, so where would it have come from? He verrrry delicately suggested that it could have been transmitted via oral sex…

Spoonflower is awesome-you could order some in one of several fabric and make a couple of throw pillows or a tablecloth or table runner instead for just an accent of unspeakable horror.

Stupid kinja.

Duplicate.