Do you understand that I’m a woman who has been raped and you’re desire to overturn my own ideas of self are basally why I don’t trust any victim to properly desire vengeance.

I was raped. Until you can not make me a perpetrator I can’t speak to you. I was raped. And you seem to attach a lot of assumption to the fact that I have a penis I’d cut off if I could because I’m a woman... which is why I was raped by a man. Because peopkle like you can’t just understand that rape is bad regardless.

Because I’m not her and I can’t even begin to expect that my experience i like anyone else’s experience.

The issue is assuming any “right” which is the same as someone else deciding they have a “right” to your own body. He was my boss and he felt entitled to my body.

Right. You assume based on no evidence that I’d just rap;e and pillage. You understand that this mentality is what makes you crazy?

Because embracing a certain victimhood doesn’t benefit the person. It merely mires them in believing that they can’t change.

I’ve been encouraged to avoid labels associated with my trauma. I have been encouraged to seek the good in people as opposed to assuming the bad. I have been encouraged by my doctors to confront and learn to accept that what happened to me happened and that it has no bearing on who I am as a person because I’m the…

No. I don’t know that. In fact, all of that goes 100% against everything my therapist and counselor have told me about how to make my life normal again.

Want to know something private about me? I was forcibly/corrosively raped a few years ago. A man I was flirting with ended up getting me very drunk and when I said “no” I was steamrolled over and sudden my clothes were off.

Fuck you. Do you really think I’ll just solve the issues by being rational?

Being nice to strange dudes us killed though.

Maybe your insane idea that every woman who ever stands up for herself will be shot has a lot to do with insuring women are passive and worried.

Right. I should just assume I’m a rapist for this conversation?

Fuck you. Seriously. Fuck off.

Fuck you. I have as much a right to go to my room as she does. Which is what happened as soon as she realized she was being crazy.

You realize that you’re being unfair to everyone involved, yes? Equality comes from us sharing burden... not from us sharing betterment.

Then why even try to be more than a passive outlet for men? seems defeatist.

Most men are worried about being assaulted or otherwise hurt. Which happens far more frequently than any violence against specifically women.

Treating humans like humans would be a good first step.

You know what? That is exactly the kind of thing that is bad for our society. All he said was “Hello” and the woman felt threatened? That is simply awful.