Some places! One by one that will change... god damn it all fuck this world! (My hope well is running low)

“Sodomy without consent”? Like, rape? Is there a reason this is separate and not felony rape?

Anyone with a dick.

Oh those. Yeah I’ve had probably dozens of those!

Yeah, I’ve got a dr appt this week. You said you had a scan? Like an MRI or?

My period is starting to become irregular after being like clockwork my whole life. Random cramps and pretty constant bloating. Hair appearing increasingly on my chin. I’m barely 32 so it’s pretty early to go through changes. I guess I’m suspecting early PCOS but crossing my fingers that’s not the case.

Vitamin D supplements. For real.

Good! Sometimes even getting to the help you know you need is hard so sincerely, good job! It took me forever to admit that I needed help and get my ass to the doctor. You’ve taken the first step and now you just have to wait. You cant see the light yet but it’s there and soon you will! Start small with the things you…

A lot of them actually look like the Invisalign or whitening trays. They are

I was in a dark hole and honestly, it took a medication kick in the pants. If you’re feeling like this something needs to change fast. I was crying every day and not even willing to leave the house and butrowing into negativity and now I am succeeding and happy again. Do something you know you’re good at - when you’re…

Disability is meant for these situations. You don’t have to be on it forever hopefully. You have to stay afloat and eat well and take care of yourself (and heat your apartment!!) so you can get better. And congrats on the weight loss if that’s what’s you wanted/needed to do - it’s hard and you did it despite your…

Go to the dentist and find out if you do it at night. I’ve been avoiding the nightguard but the clenching caused two cavities (top and bottom) and now I’m probably going to need two root canals too. Using the nightguard helps me be more aware of when I’m doing it but I’m also going to follow this thread because I…

How did you find out you had it? I have a suspicion but I don’t know what to ask for.

I wouldn’t. You will look petty and your bosses will remember and you risk both your job and your future recommendation. (Media stuff is usually covered in your employment contract.)

My advice is two-fold - first, realize that lots of people are in shitty relationships because they are big old cowards and can’t deal with being alone. Settling for crapola never works out in the end and at least you aren’t accumulating damage. Second, online dating is only terrible if you are overly invested. If you…

My partner used to be damn near silent. I just told him that I was having a hard time telling if he was having fun or if things I was trying we’re working. I said it made it hard for me to relax and make noise too. He relaxed and though he’s not noisy now he’s not quiet anymore.

GOOD RIDDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH! = your new mantra.

Some people don’t expect that much of their friends. For me, I don’t have family and my friends are the only people I rely on in this fucked up world and if they hurt me I’m like NOPE! It was hard learning that my notion of friendship isn’t necessarily the norm. I’m sorry your friend was/is a shit. You deserve to have…

Are you perhaps in Portland? Because I think everyone entered hibernation this week.

Someone I know and love said the exact same thing - I must not get it. I’m like, “you fucking asshole I’m the smartest person you know and you’ve told me that over and over and you don’t even read the fucking news!” Infuriating.