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I imagine, (though I may be wrong), that it was exhausting to write this piece. I hope that someday it is considered as impolite as asking someones’ age or income, to presume you know, and further, can *tell* them what their racial identity is.

I don’t care how her child came to her life. My own daughter was surrogate-born. I wouldn’t care if Beyonce came out and said, “It’s none of your damn business,” because that is the truth. I HATE lying liars. Tell the truth or refuse to comment, but don’t lie. I suppose there is the off chance that Beyonce is telling

Nah, but but running around in a fake belly is batshit crazy.

Looks like she was trying to keep the pillow from falling.

Or she could have glossed over them and said only the white invaders were the ones with magic, which is also a shitty option. I agree, I think that this is the best way for her to do this. I would have been angrier if the story was “And then the white men brought magic to the new continent.”

If she ignores the Indians then they will protest, if she tells it dead straight they will protest, if she fictionalizes they will protest. It is a no win scenario when dealing with the Tribal spokespeople.

Yeah, I have to kind of agree here. If you’re going to work magic into US history, you can either ignore the lore of Native Americans, which is dismissive, or incorporate it, and get attacked for appropriation.

It was going to be a no-win situation anyways with the native Americans and magical America. Don’t bring them up, and you’re erasing them. Draw upon native traditions, and you’re appropriating them. Make some shit up entirely, and you’re caricaturing them.

Yeah, good idea, maybe don't point it out. Go back to the judgment filled a-hole threads where you belong.

FFS. Dude is grieving. He’s probably hanging on by his fingernails right now, and that’s keeping him going. He has a small child without a mother to raise her. It’s a shitty situation, and that belief is getting him through.

Don’t be mean. If religion helps them cope let them have it.

Well good sir, emotions are sometimes irrational. That’s just how they are. For instance, I think your obvious rage at some person’s expressions of grief is pretty irrational and stupid.

Yeah, let’s not asshole.

Yeah, idk. I was addressing the no treatment statements people were making, and how prenatal care with a pap smear would’ve made a difference. You know what? Probably not. Her cancer was probably to advanced for anything but a radical hysterectomy when she got pregnant.

Care to share what exactly it is you know about her personal diagnosis? Are you privy to more information than the rest of us? And I’m serious-what do you know about her situation specifically?

Oh, you have complete access to her medical history? You've read that she voluntarily skipped her Pap smears every year?? If I had died from my melanoma would I have deserved it too, because I could have been getting skin checks?

I know, what the fuck with these responses?! I’m an athiest and a staunch women’s health care supporter, and I find these cynical responses pretty distasteful. Should she have gotten screened earlier? Obviously yes - but I’d like to add that my best friend found out she had breast cancer months after the birth of her

Maybe I am naive, but I really didnt expect to see so much bullshit cynicism in these replies. This man just lost his wife, this child her mama, and this lovely woman her life. Have some fucking empathy and maybe don’t try to monday night quarterback the way people choose to deal with the terminal illness of their

Don’t be deliberately contentious. The Oscar diversity conversation was always about the actors, not the other categories. To it’s detriment, sure, but that’s obviously what I was talking about.