omg you're so cool you don't care about weddings

I actually think it's creepier to start in with the "nice" shit then work your way to the outright objectification. It's the same way that people like Gacy, Bundy, etc got their victims. Flattery at first, then......

THIS IS A FUCKING EXCELLENT DIRTBAG EVERYTHING IMPORTANT IS IN IT I AM SO EXCITE ABOUT HARRY I AM IN A CONSTANT STATE OF HEAVY BREATHING AND THEN TAYLOR IS AMAZING AND THEN WHAT THE FUCK IS JTIMB'S HAIR IN THAT PICTURE

You've wrote a phenomenal piece Jia, certainly one of the most objective to surface in recent days.

Not even "real women," just "more women." Even when I was in the DD range I still needed a small band, and it was as if all cups that size started at 38 and then went up. I keep having to order bras from Europe where it seems like the idea of small band/large cup (or large band/small cup) aren't completely left…

You know what would be even better than not photoshopping already gorgeous models? Carrying sizes that fit real women. I'm not that big, but can't find a thing that would fit me in those stores.

If she gave him $50,000 he's be dead within 24 hours. I'm sure she's offered to pay for rehab but you can't help those that don't want to get better.

Plus, when it comes to Madonna and her brother, the narrative always seems to be framed around the idea that she can somehow fix his problems because she has tons of money (and is therefor an evil bitch who hasn't used her money to do so yet). Addiction cannot be wiped away just because you millions of dollars.

Except that they weren't fucking criticising her body- you jumped to a conclusion. You literally took a nothing, and tried turning it into a negative.

omg im so embarrassed

Madonna has paid for her brother to go to ultra-high-end, intensive, long-term rehabilitation centres quite a few times. I did some reading on him the last time he sold stories about her to the press, and he's a pretty depressing, self-pitying piece of work. He's abandoned rehab every time she's paid for it, and…

That wasn't a criticism about her body. Hayden Panettiere is genuinely tiny.

Right?? Like those guys that yell 'Alright darlin'? How about it?' When you are on your way home at 3 am. Well sir, I was planning on going home but now that you have scared the shit of me and made me really uncomfortable I think I'd like to have sex!

I wish I knew how to embed tweets, there was one that basically said, "I don't like when women use the term mansplain because it makes me sad." it was way more... you know... mansplainy, but i'm sure you get the gist of it.

Also much ignored is how quickly a "Hey gorgeous!" devolves into "You're a dumb cunt!" when the callers don't get a rise out of us.

If a guy feels entitled to tell a strange woman how hot he thinks she is, it is a very short walk to telling a strange woman all the various ways she has failed in being hot. They don't all do it, but a lot of them just yell whatever comes to mind be it "nice ass!" or "fat ass!" and let's not forget that many…

Like Rush Limbaugh, it seems like this guy makes money by not thinking before he speaks.

But... if all I want is to be called pretty why would it matter if the catcaller is ugly or not? Shouldn't I just be happy about being called the one thing I apparently love the most? He's very bad at words-ings.

Things that I love more than being called pretty:

saying that women love hearing it implies that old stereotype that women are helpless and egoless without men. it's a victimizing statement that legitimizes the harassment of women. dude needs to take some time and think about what he's saying.