What they are looking for is penis pals!

To each their own, but IMO if you get to the point in the relationship where dating someone else would be considered "cheating", you had best be deleting or making your dating profiles private.

i have seen few married man on dating sites who are looking for pen palls, i think its very weird

there are a shocking amount of people who use their wedding photos as their tinder profile pictures. I always wonder if it's an open marriage situation, people just using their most flattering pictures, or people who just want to see what tinder is all about. (And they NEVER swipe right on me. Rude. )

No, it's not cheating. But it doesn't have to be cheating to not be acceptable.

Nah. If my man had a Tinder account, I'd curb his ass. Sure, it could be that he's not planning on cheating, but most people don't wake up one day and say, "I'm going out to make it happen tonight" or whatever. It's a slow burn, most of the time. And while there are a lot of people who are okay with ONS, many aren't.…

I feel like 95% of Tracy Moore's posts are jokes that are just above my head. Logging in to a hook-up app with the intent to evaluate the fuckability of other potential partners is not the same thing as noticing a good-looking person on the street.

I remember an Encyclopedia Brown story in which it was revealed that the female character had done something because...she was filing her nails after getting out of the shower, and nobody does that!

i have had to be brought into meetings to help a trans employee explain to a male employee who was telling everyone and anyone who expressed interest in her that she was a transwoman. i don't think, even after she and i spoke to him, he really understood how LEAVING HER HOUSE is dangerous for her. or that OTHER PEOPLE…

I was 20 and I had recently been dumped.... by one of my coworkers. I was the receptionist, he was a supervisor (not mine), and it was a total catastrophe. My biggest crutch post-breakup (besides alcohol) was another coworker, who also happened to be a really close friend of my ex, who also happened to have a crush on…

Oh, hey, this reminds me about a story about my mumble mumbles mumble mumble, who attended a party thrown for the band *FAMOUS 80'S BAND NAME REDACTED* at *MEGA FAMOUS MUSIC MOGUL'S NAME REDACTED*'s house. She ended up throwing *REDACTED* at all of the guests. Turns out she had a problem with *REDACTED* and went…

I hosted about 20 sex Ed teacher coworkers to my circa 1950 home that had one bathroom. We played my painstakingly crafted homemade "truth or dare Jenga", got ridiculous, and has a great time. My plumbing was not amused. When the toilet finally overflowed, people were drunk enough to find this reasonable and in no…

FYI: I don't drink much, which means I'm the designated driver and sober witness to the drunk and high. Which also means I tend to avoid parties, especially after this incident.

My mortifying holiday party experience ended up changing my life completely. It was my first job out of college, it was in my field of choice and I hated it. I was there about 5 months when the holiday party came around. I also happened to be in a horrible marriage, we were young and totally stupid. By the time my…

Two years ago our company retreat doubled as a holiday party. Because our CEO was a wildly inappropriate human/French, he decided that flying the entire company to Vegas for a weekend was a normal and sound way to spread the seasonal cheer.

Well, my partner's office party was two nights ago. I was "that person" at the party who drank too much and made a fool of herself. In the many months of pregnancy/breastfeeding, I have apparently completely forgotten about the most important rule of holiday party, "moderation." Acted a damn fool, hit on the hot new…

This isn't me, but it's a great holiday party story so I'll tell it anyway.

Last year my boss rented us out an entire inn up in Vermont for a weekend. The entire company of 20 employees or so went with their spouses and significant others. The first night was a murder mystery party. For those of you who don't know, each person during that party is assigned a role. My boss assigned me a pretty…

I had this one year where I decided I was going to try all of the drugs, because you're only 21 once. I probably should not have tried them at all a work holiday gathering, especially when I was only an intern and expected to help out. The party was outdoors in the hollywood hills at my fancy boss' house. I was also…

My worst holiday party was a Thanksgiving at my grandma's house.