Maybe Bill was just a bigger asshole? ::shrugs::

damn baby why you always on fire

Read up on PrEP since your comment and it’s fascinating and honestly it’s the first time I’ve heard of it. What the hell. Thanks for the insight. I can’t believe I haven’t heard more about it. Maybe I’ve been living under a rock and haven’t exposed myself to enough media?

I’ve read this so many times and still cannot read it as you’ve written it.

You have such a polite way with words. Ehem.

This is so fascinating to me. Thank you.

Could you speak a little more about PrEP?

So are you both performers? Do you get jealous? It seems like a really athletic job. Do you own cats?

When you say they are different (and I know you said you aren’t an expert) would you say they aren’t as stringent? Because if not, then that is really terrible and sad. :( All performers should be protected.

I am so disappointed to hear that this is still happening in a community that presents itself as progressive and sex positive.

Have you seen his films? He does not respect the women that he has sex, at least not anything within the last several years.

But yes, on second thought, I can see how that scholarship was meant, truly, for a black student and not for someone posing as black. I guess my stance is that it’s not a cut and dry answer.

You don’t “steal” money from a scholarship. Even though she wasn’t black, she was awarded the monies due to merit as well.

She has children and another child on the way; her first priority is to take care of them financially so they do not become a burden on society. She doesn’t “need” to do anything with any money she makes for anyone else in society.

I think she really, really has some massive self loathing and tried to create a brand new “self”. Almost like a rebirth of a new human being and thought she could choose everything, right down to the race. I agree with you that it probably stemmed from some serious psychological distress and I feel terrible for people…

Her “crazy” didn’t stop her from being competent at her work, though.

Like she actively seemed to demean black women when speaking about them? If that is true, that makes this entire story even more terrible because her students did not deserve to experience that.

Best explanation I’ve read so far. Thank you so fucking much and I apologize for being so fucking dense.

Could we be wrong about this? Wasn’t there a time when society felt this way about transpeople? I don’t necessarily agree with what this woman did, but I wonder, was there a cultural element in her life that she grew up with that she identified with more?

Maybe she has some kind of malingering personality disorder or mental health issue? I feel really terrible for her because of how much her life revolved around this lie and how entrenched she seemed into something that could easily be disproved.