I gave her warning before. I said really clearly “hey this behavior is not acceptable and if you do it again I’m out.” She did (she’s super aggressive and verbally and emotionally lashes out and piles shit on other people when she’s stressed), and I ghosted. Sort of. She’d call, I’d text back. I didn’t actually talk…

I’ve tried. She doesn’t want to accept the downgrade. My perspective is that we don’t enjoy each other’s company anymore. I think she’s insufferable and she thinks I’m mean. So why on earth would either one of us want to spend time with each other anymore?

We’ve had issues for a long time. This and this give all the background.

We’re super downgraded. We see each other really infrequently, but the instant we see each other more often, there’s conflict. And I’m really over it.

We’re not entangled at all right now. We were very close for awhile, but haven’t been for years. When the power balance shifted (aka she wasn’t in control) the friendship really changed. I’ve been downgrading it for years. I’d be happy to remain acquaintances and maintain a friendly, occasional and casual friendship,…

Yeah...that’s what it’s going to come to.

I am REALLY struggling with this right now. I have a friend, formerly close, that I simply don’t want to be friends with anymore. We have fundamental personality differences that I do not think are resolvable. She clearly wants to work things out and continue the friendship. I feel like I am done. And I have NO idea…

Full-fat, unsweetened, real greek yogurt is delicious. Mix it with honey, top it with fruit, make tzatziki...all delicious. Everything else is crap and should be killed with fire.

If you have it properly, frozen and with caviar, it's excellent. But that's the only way to ever drink it straight.

I feel prettier with a really short pixie cut than I ever did with long hair.

I’ve experienced a lot more aggressive table clearing in the last year. Servers hover over my plate, hands out, ready to grab it, or actually pick it up, when it still has food on it, while they’re asking me if I’m done. There’s no “how’s it going, can I take that for you?” and waiting for an answer. It’s not the…

And this is one of the reasons I hate edibles. Other reasons: taste like crap, take at least an hour to kick in.

I think whatever you do, you need to do it with kindness, because the way you describe it, you sound pretty damn angry. I’m not picking up on a whole lot of compassion from you. People don’t choose mental illness, people don’t choose to be vulnerable to abuse, and it sounds like she’s had a rough life. If you withdraw…

There is only one University of Chicago, which is (of course) in Illinois. University of Illinois-Chicago (UIC) is the Chicago campus for University of Illinois, whose main campus is in Champaign-Urbana.

They've always been tacky.

In annoying girl’s defense, malt vinegar on deep fried potatoes is delicious. But yeah...fuck everything else.

I have no doubt Martha gets high, and probably got high with Snoop (as she CLEARLY has before.) I don’t believe for a minute she doesn’t know how to toke and someone had to shotgun her. If it happened like that, it was probably just for shits and giggles. (I’ve spent too much time thinking about this, obv.)