Fucking Hasids are a fucking cult. Every last one of them. They are an embarrassment and a shanda to every sane Jew out there.

Are you working LinkedIn? So many jobs will come through networking that are never advertised. Also, if you’re not happy with your resume, you might want to consider getting someone to do it professionally. I did, and it made a huge difference.

Captain Awkward has a lot of good advice on this. One of her ideas is to think about it how much longer are you will to live with things exactly as they are now? If nothing changes, how much longer can you live with it? 3 months? 6 months? A year? Longer? Because at some point, after throwing a lot of energy at…

I’m not going to lie to you. There is no solution, other than getting a new job as fast as you can.

No. I think there are many kinds of soulmates, but I don’t think that there’s just one person we’re destined to be with. That’s a whole lot of jesus-y calvinist bullshit, wrapped up in new age togs. Move on.

That’s what a few decades of heavy drinking does to your face.

Why does this have to be a binary? Why can’t she be both? Why not quirky nerdgirl and sexy queen? I’m super tired of people acting like these are mutually exclusive.

I can’t speak for all women, but most of us want a man to listen, to respond and to try. If I say “I really love when you do this” and you agree to do that, but never do, that is bad. If I say “I really love when you do this,” and you do it enthusiastically, that is good.

YOU SHALL NOT PASS.

I fell asleep during his reading at the Walker in Minneapolis. He was a boring old crank.

I have had this conversation a dozen times. HOW DOES NO ONE GET IT???!!!

I don’t enjoy being around picky eaters, but I’ve also learned that a lot of adults have undiagnosed sensory processing disorders. If it’s caught and treated when young, mild SPDs are generally not a big deal. But if they’re not (as they haven’t been for those of use over 20,) they can manifest in a lot of different…

Come on now. I’m not your editor. Copy it into ms word and do a spelling and grammar check.

Why would you want to become an official thing if he’s only ever going to have sex in one position? Say something! As far as how to do it, just say you like to try different positions and see where it goes from there.

This is just a personal pet peeve, but I HAAAAATE it when dudes say they’re “laid back.” I’ve found it’s code for lazy, non-committal, or not really interested in anything. They’re the guys who say “whatever you want” and never take any responsibility for making decisions. Or they’re actually high-strung and…

I hate that heels = professional in my world. I try to make up for it with good outfits, cute flats and on point hair/makeup, but I still feel like I’m not taken quite as seriously. It’s so freaking stupid.

Heels. I can’t wear heels. I have a completely collapsed arch on one foot and the pain is horrible. I can’t really even do kitten heels, because the balance of the shoe is such that all the weight goes onto the ball of my foot and OMG PAIN.

Thanks! I knew he was full of shit, because I may have been young, but I wasn’t stupid. I was so freaking angry that he pulled that crap on me and I wanted him to suffer. What’s fucked up is this wasn’t the first time some asshole threatened my job. They were always empty threats, though. I always knew there wasn’t a…

I was a young 20-something American living in London and a Nice Guy™ friend of a friend had invited me to see his recording studio down the street from the pub in Soho. I really didn’t want to go, but I hadn’t quite learned how to say “No” before absolutely necessary. So we went, and of course he got super-handsy. I…