they don't mind per se but get really creepy about what they leap to assume is a "sure thing" sex-wise.

You did what you had to do. It's sad, and it's normal to feel sad about it, but you can't let people drain the life out of you. Her mental health issues are not your responsibility. You did absolutely nothing wrong by telling her you're done. She started the conversation by coming over to talk, and sometimes don't get…

No.

Oh...maybe because I like how it looks, and you can fuck right off, because what I wear has nothing to fucking do with you. If you can't control yourself, that's your damn problem. Don't leave the house.

Ugh. Seconded. I fucking hate them.

Wellness takes discipline and a multifaceted treatment plan.

*Waves politely* Hello!

I hate joints. They're so wasteful and I hate the taste of paper. I'm all about the small bong. I load it with ice, pack one hit, and I'm good.

Some people really don't react well to cannabis. Having said that, mental illness and addiction are co-morbid, and mind-altering substances of any kind can trigger or exacerbate any mental health issues.

I'm really productive when I'm high. I work out, I clean, I organize, I run errands, etc. I don't get high before doing any kind of brainy, intellectual work, but if it's just getting the mundane shit done? Hell, I'm better at it when I'm a little lit.

Bake some cookies and bring him a six pack of his favorite beer or a bottle of nice wine.

Yup. Me too. When I get the pissy glare and the begrudging move I say "Thanks so much. I REALLY appreciate it." in my happiest, friendliest voice. It makes them even madder. Good times.

If done right, working out certainly can lead to a different body shape that some people find more attractive. But it's not necessarily a "better" body. People injure the hell out of themselves from working out improperly. People exercise too much without increasing the calories or getting the right nutrition and mess…

Don't fuck around "this is better for you." He will weasel and manipulate you. Say "This isn't working. You need to move out by (x) date." If he whines and bitches say "We have talked about these issues, and your behavior has not changed. Our decision is final. You have until X to move" Don't argue, don't try to…

I tend to wait to do the actual deed with a guy until I feel comfortable with him, but there's a whole lot of making out and mutual pleasuring until then. I don't have sex with someone unless I'm pretty fucking sure there are going to be a lot of orgasms and a good time had by all, so I'm all about taking dudes for a…

Fuck that racist motherfucker. Seriously, why is it so difficult for people to act like decent humans? It's not that hard!

If fat cat's owners want fat cat to have any quality of life, they're doing the right thing. Fat cat will be much happier when he can freely walk, jump and run without pain.

Ugh. As an advertising professional, I find that insulting.* I mean, no one's going to stick up for advertising as the most ethical/thoughtful of all businesses, (nor should they) but if that's the best creative your agency can come up with, you suck and no one should ever hire you.

But he didn't ignore it. He responded to your text. He just didn't respond in the way you wanted him to respond, and it's bugging you enough to post about it. That doesn't mean it's A Big Deal, but something doesn't have to be A Big Deal to talk about it. Talking about the smaller things often leads to them not…