I disagree, but I also tell people upfront how much I dislike texting, and if they want to talk, they should actually call me. If it bothers you, say something.

Some people just aren't texters. It's not personal towards anyone—I simply hate texting. I think it's intrusive and irritating on so many levels. As far as I'm concerned, texting is not for conversations, it's for logistics. If a text conversation goes more than three exchanges, pick up the phone and call. If you…

Do you think he'll do the Nice Guy™ dance* at our party? Everyone loves the Nice Guy™ dance.

I know! I mean, who doesn't love talking about the International Jewish Banking Conspiracy? Those Jews, with so much power. I mean, they totally brought on pogroms, state expulsions, ghettos, and systemic scapegoating on themselves because they had so much power. That stuff always happens to people who are the…

Don't forget anti-semitic. That's a super look. He's really got it all, doesn't he?

Yep. That happened to me, on Jdate, of all places. Fucking disgusting, particularly coming from people I HOPED would be more sensitive to discrimination and racism.

White men are the default. Jews were not, regardless of the propaganda against them. You're ridiculous...lol.

I agree. I don't actually have any issues with self-medication, as long as someone is also seeing qualified health professionals. It's not legal where I live either, but my psychiatrist is on board with it, because he knows I also use a variety of other modalities to successfully care for my emotional health.

I use it for the oil cleansing method. I mix a little coconut oil and a few drops of castor oil. I also use it on my body as a moisturizer. Oh, and I use it to exfoliate. I take a shower, and once I'm clean. I run a hot bath. While the tub is filling up, I pat myself dry, and rub a generous amount of coconut oil on my…

Accept that there's nothing you can do, and decide if you want to stay with him exactly as he is right now.

Rosehip seed oil and coconut oil are the best. They are skin miracle products.

No one needs to defend white men. White men are the default. Anyone who thinks about getting up and defending the poor, oppressed, misunderstood white man needs to sit down, shut up and listen to people who have actual experience of systemic marginalization from outside and inside their communities. I mean, really,…

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I'm so sorry for your loss. My brother, many years ago, lost a much loved cat when she was very young, and it was incredibly hard for him.

I would be so much happier to do four 10-11 hour days and have a 3 day weekend. It makes so much more sense to me. I'm already at work, so an extra hour or two isn't a big deal. But that extra day off...it's The Best.

Oh god...it happens. Don't hate yourself. Fuck...I walked out of an interview a few months ago because it was horrendous. Shit happens, ya know? Next one will be better.

Awareness and practice.

I'm a big fan of shutting the fuck up. I thought I was awesome at it, until I started job interviewing a few months ago, and learned I was saying in 2 minutes what I could have said in 20 seconds. I got some pretty strong feedback about it, looked back at my behavior and thought...oh...fuck...they're right. It…