Oh Martha...I totally get you. There are few boys I regret not banging. And they were Redford/Newman hot.

*SNORT*

Ugh. Viagra is the worst. I HATE having sex with guys on viagra. Cialis is much better because there's more of a mind body connection. Viagra might as well just be a strap-on.

Not in my experience. Of course I can't speak for All The Women, but most women I know (including myself) prefer average to slightly above average. Knowing how to work it is the most important. My experience with men who have really big dicks is that they think it's enough, so they end up being pretty bad lovers. The…

It may or may not suck for you. I've been living with this for 2o years, and I was only diagnosed about 7 weeks ago. It has seriously impacted my life on multiple fronts, so it is a very big deal for me. But everyone has a different experience, so hopefully it won't be quite as dramatic for you. If you catch it early,…

Blergh...no kidding. I'm not a steak, yo. I'm not a piece of meat to consume. That's gross on so many levels.

Lol you're welcome. I used to have the attitude that if people are going to like me, looks don't matter, but I was kind of an arrogant, self-absorbed little shit. And I don't think looks, per se, matter. I think what matters is if it seems like someone cares about being well-groomed and putting their best self…

Very important. I like to look good, and while I think it's impossible to look "flawless," I 100% believe in the power of the first impression.

I fried up crispy chicken livers and had them on top of a nice green salad. It was delicious.

Welp...most people's crotches smell if they haven't bathed for a few days. If that's putting you off sex, you have to sit down and have an uncomfortable, honest conversation about it.

I fucking hate that bullshit, and I'm a curvy woman.

I really just want my thyroid to work properly. I was doing great on the dose I was on, but I think my body is used to it, because I'm feeling so down, lethargic, unmotivated, etc. For a few weeks it was awesome. I had energy, I was up early and in bed at a decent time, I was doing things that normally would stop me…

Thank you! (Although some people definitely disagree.)

It is a difficult conversation, because you can really like someone, not be seeing anyone else, but still not be ready to make it exclusive. I totally understand - I don't commit very quickly.

Whenever you feel like you're ready. There is no "right" time. If he is really into you, and wants to be exclusive, it was the right time for him to bring it up. If you're not ready, it's better he knows that now.

Yes, that is exactly what I am saying. Thank you for clarifying that.

There are so many ways to handle this but you're choosing not to see any of them. You want a pat on the back, so I hope you find it. Best of luck.

No, I don't understand. A lot of people have been in a situation where a family member has married an utter shit, but we've sucked it up we love our family. You have the means to handle it, but you're choosing not to. I hope you sort it out.

You have to find your off switch. I don't want to sound unsympathetic, because I am always the person who sees bullshit and calls it out first, so I know it's rough. But it's time to stop making excuses for your bad temper and lack of control. This wedding isn't about you, but your inability to control your temper is,…

I am so, so sorry that your sister is marrying a piece of shit. My brother's first wife was a crazy fucking bitch, and I hated her. But the thing is, the wedding isn't about you, and you're making it about you. If you can't go without throwing a shitfit and making a huge scene, don't go. You're not obliged to do…