My approach - start as you mean to continue. I would wear a favourite outfit - which in my case would definitely be a dress cause I think they're more comfortable than pants. Fuller skirts allow sitting in parks. But you can be damn sure I'd be in flats and the makeup would be minimal. A good man would be attracted to…

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Beautifully said! I'm a very pale girl and am bridesmaid tomorrow for a lovely relaxed friend who let us choose our own dress styles and is not insisting on a fake tan :-)

"I have friends who take pride in they're appearance". Your "friend" doesn't understand the difference between 'they're', 'their' and presumably 'there'. Also - she is an asshole. That wedding will undoubtedly be a tacky display of insincerity. Politely decline the wedding invitation - and every invitation from her in…

I worked in a cellar door in the Hunter Valley for a year. Most guests were awesome and just wanted to try the wines to find something they liked, but some were incredibly pompous. One of my fondest memories is one of the guys pouring the Shiraz for a group. Hunter Valley Shiraz is often described as having hints of…