Whitney was right. The greatest love of all’s inside of you! I’m 60. Kind of unhappily married for 25 of those, widowed now. Then my son died. 10 years later, I’m a hermit, but a content one. I look at the man-crazy young woman I was, and think Why? I grew up smart, and I don’t think any of those men did. They would…

IDK, I horked it down like a golden retriever taking a disguised pill, just to spite him. :)

These guys and their ilk just don’t look like they put a lot of effort into personal grooming - for that reason... I’m out.

Honestly it is more sad to me than anything else. Like a dude’s midlife crisis. 

It’s the himbo delusion, mythical men invented by single women.

I hear you! As someone who is solidly in her thirties now, single, and with the hopes of one day having children, the angst definitely creeps in.

“Until his very helpful publicist Brooke gets back to me, I have plenty of questions but few answers. But know that no matter what, I will never stop in my pursuit of truth and enlightenment. If she gets back to me, this post will be updated accordingly!”

As someone who’s entering my thirties and watching my unpaired friends get antsy, it makes sense as to why. There’s a dip in dateable people around that age, especially if you’re a 30-something woman looking for a man, because there is a solid chance you want children sooner rather than later (just statistics +…

I can’t stress Brandy’s “this person is not your weighted blanket” enough.

I know too many of these relationships - where the crippling fear of loneliness keeps people who don’t love each other together. I understand when companionship is the main driver for people in old age, but in your twenties and thirties, it’s sad to watch people be so, so scared of being alone.

I dumped someone like this—a really excellent friend. Someone I could see building a life with. Someone I didn’t think I’d ever really love. I somewhat regretted it off and on for years. We kept in touch for a few years, but his hurt would come out in late-night conversations. We, unfortunately, were not able to make…

As far as the director and costume designer thing goes, there’s definitely a power imbalance there, so even “consensual” screwing around would be suspect. The director is in a much better position to destroy the assistant costume designer’s career rather than the reverse.

Counterpoint: at least our daily infection rate and mortality rate will fall to near zero.

You’re just engaging in whataboutism which is what Trump supporters do. There is no sliding scale of racism/bigotry and most people with a level of common decency hate what Trump stands for and they also hate for this anti semitic bigotry that Farrakhan stands for as well. If Nick Cannon wants to go down and in flames…

So many young brothers who had/have accomplished much in their life want to throw it all away by buying into typical jailhouse indoctrination thinking they’ve finally ‘found the truth’.

How many of us have died on the hill of defending Louis Farrakhan? Nick chose better company I mean shit Nick they already pulled Wild N Out from TV and the rest of your revenue is about to dry up quick. I hope all the white folks that bitched and moaned about “cancel culture” come to his defense. Right JK Rowlings?…

I hate the phrase cancel culture so much and I’m hearing it like every 5 seconds these days. It’s not an actual thing. It’s the free market which conservatives are supposed to love. If coke changed their recipe and it tasted like shit and no one bought it nobody would say why did they cancel coke. Coke fucked up and…

“The world is outraged about racial injustice and the pandemic is finally forcing people to acknowledge the vast divide between the few rich and the many poor. There are protests active, at this moment, in cities across the world.

Read this and then take several seats.

This was a fun read, thank you!