It’s absolutely disgusting how many people are blaming her for his death. First of all - we don’t know if it was an accidental overdose or purposeful. And no matter what the answer to that is, addiction is a disease, depression is a disease, it’s no one’s fault*. It’s not the fault of the person suffering, and it’s…

*looks up*

Oh my god that’s AMAZING! Go you and go sleep !!

Seriously :/. I know it everyone can be expected to read/remember post history! But oh my god this husband, he’s so far beyond explaining what needs to be done, he’s basically at the point of willfully enforcing “barefoot and in the kitchen [/nursery]”.

Hope your pasta is delicious! I’ve been thinking about you Reno - if thoughts could manifest a good nights sleep and a relaxing bath + book you’d have one. I hope for your sake he sees the light soon!

As someone who’s been in Paris for the past couple months: they have these or something like them already, they’re pretty frequently seen, I guess they’re going to try and put in more? First of all, they already have ‘self cleaning’ free standing public toilets, they’re like single stall rooms, and those are around…

Whole30 people are more annoying than vegans. Don’t shame me for my legumes!!

Thank you! The vegan hate is so frequently thinly veiled misogyny - men are more respected but looked at as emasculated, the women as ice cold bitches who always nag. Oh, and don’t get me started on the mockery if you dare to have a moral/compassionate reason for not eating meat. (I say spiritual now instead of moral…

Do we know if any trans men are being subjected to this? Or is this being particularly directed towards trans women?

I would LOVE for there to be more romance style movies without the shoved in awkward comedy! I love romance but hate rom-coms since awkward humor is physically painful for me - thank god for books. 

You said you want time relaxing, so my particular suggestions may be more active than you want, but GO! Go travel by yourself, it’s amazing!! I’m a small-ish 25 year old blond white woman with limited foreign language skills but with a love of art, culture, food, and exploring. Independent travel is my favorite thing…

Soy milk is the best in cereal (Green Silk!!) and I actually love it in coffee. The nutrition profile is great! Not worried about phytoestrogens! And re environment, the cow industry is one of the biggest negative influences on our environment, I’m happy to support alternatives even if they’re not perfect.

YUP. Like besides all the who said what drama, that shit was rapey as fuck.

You didn’t seem like you were taking it out on me and those are totally fair points! Inclusivity is incredibly important and is hard. Especially when it comes to queerness and reading as straight in their relationships- it’s both a privilege and an erasure, and can lead to people being excluded from needed queer…

Ah, thank you! Yes I’m way more familiar with AMAB and AFAB.

I’m not entirely sure what you mean by all the acronyms, I’m sorry! I’m coming from this as someone who prefers queer/bi personally, but belongs to a bi/pan solidarity group where we someone pretty easily manage to be supportive of each other’s labels and the fluidity between them.

I love how her answer isn’t “I identify as pansexual” but is, “I am queer, I identified as bisexual for a while, I read about pansexual and that fits *TOO*!” Emphasizing that “TOO” because - It’s so nice to have a model of inclusion like that, where you can sort of check all those boxes and be open to changing your…

Are they...not going to hire any women? (Besides trying to hire Tina, who would have been a producer and perhaps more ‘protected’ or out of daily operations.) Have HR people or lawyers or liability watchers everywhere? Since Rose didn’t think he did anything wrong, he might not be willing to change? I can’t even begin…

I am here for this issue tailor made for in flight fluff reading. Thank god I have a properly long flight this weekend that requires at least on in depth reading!

Ack, DUH, thank you!!